NOTE: Even Astrologers get hit by the force of Mercury in Retrograde! Since our weekly W.C. newsletter did not get to all of you this weekend - due to an unforeseen technical glitch - we have posted it here as a "special" feature (for this week only). Enjoy!
This week, a financially supportive Pisces asks our astute astrologer if her money squandering hubby will ever change. Then, a Pisces loving Leo wonders if her man will eventually step out of his funk. W.C. tunes into the heavens for the insightful answers.
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Dear W.C.,
My husband (a Virgo) and I (a Pisces) have been together for 14 years. During these years I have been his "rock of support" in more ways than financial. Frankly I'm exhausted from it. He's cheap and has no financial goals for retirement. I'm the one constantly bailing us out of his financial mistakes - I have used up all of my stock and 401K dollars to "fix" his bad spending habits. The only thing I have left is a possible nest egg that my father may be leaving me upon his death - a sizable sum. What should I do? A child is involved.
Jan in Burkburnett, TX
Dear Jan,
Well, you're certainly not the first person to complain about a Virgo being "cheap," my little Pisces friend! As a Pisces, you're probably used to supporting others in any number of ways, not just financially. So it's no wonder you say that you've been his "rock of support." Self-sacrifice comes very naturally to you. But the question is, do you want to continue sacrificing your own happiness and stability for this rather unreliable man? It sounds like you don't. But knowing you, Pisces, there's probably another part of you that is rather reluctant to give up this savior role. You may be using the fact that you have a child to keep yourself in this situation. But think about whether or not it really does your child any good to have to watch your rather dysfunctional relationship and to see you unhappy. I think you may be rather reluctant to come to this conclusion and make a move, though it may become increasingly imperative to you in the coming times.
Good luck, my little Pisces friend!
W.C.
Dear W.C.,
My relationship with the person in question (DOB 2/22/48) started off like gangbusters. We were spending a lot of time together. Then he took a job where he is not around a lot and our communication has really suffered. I have attempted several times to convey how important I feel it is to communicate with each other. Now, I have just about given up. He tells me that he loves me and wants a life with me but just doesn't talk to me. I have not seen him since the March 12 and we spoke once by phone the beginning of April and then again the beginning of May. Apparently, I'm not the only one he's not talking to. His friends ask me constantly if I've heard from him, etc. I know that he's got a lot on his plate right now and is dealing with several unpleasant situations. He tells me that it depresses him to talk to me because he wants to be with me and can't right now. Will the communication ever improve or is he just another hopeless man who has trouble communicating? Is there hope for us to have a somewhat normal (whatever that is) relationship?
Jennifer in Sandwich
Dear Jennifer,
Well, it sounds like you're a Leo who's craving a little more attention and affection, huh? Nothing new there! Not that you're being overly needy in this situation. Your feelings are perfectly justifiable. But Leos do tend to require more attention and affection than any other sign of the zodiac. So it's no wonder that this situation is particularly bothersome to you. Just realize that it's not all about you, which I know is hard for a Leo. But he is being honest with you. You're not the only one he's not talking to. This situation is depressing him deeply, and talking to you does just serve to remind him of what he's missing. And sometimes when Pisces are depressed, they just completely shut down, and I think that's what you're experiencing with him right now. So, as alien as it might sound to you, just realize that the fact that he's not talking to you is a sign of how much you really mean to him. Get it? And maybe that'll make your Leo ego feel a little better for a while. Good luck, my little Leo friend!
Happy Cosmic Trails!
W.C.