Every day at California Psychics is a day filled with calls about romance, relationships and hopeful dreams of enduring love. Our psychics tell us they have learned volumes about the subject from hearing callers' stories and delivering their messages from the universe. In the spirit of Valentine's Day, we asked our psychics to tell us the most important things we need to know about love.
You can't hurry it, trap it, control it, manipulate it, buy it… That's just not in the nature of love. Love needs to be free to be true.
People go through life seeking love and once they find it, they'll go through all kinds of machinations to make sure they don't lose it. They'll do anything in their power to control it, which is the very reason they lose it over and over again, our psychics believe about the biggest mistake we can make in love.
"But, the human heart wants what it wants. We all desire love, yearn for it, need it. But unfortunately people will do anything and everything to trap it," Kizzy ext. 5115 reports. "They will not spare any expense, even karmic, to get what they want. But people need to learn that you can't hold love hostage. People who are good at relationships hold their love in a place of equality, without that there is no love… instead someone is always struggling to dominate or gain control."
Our psychics tell us that they have learned from their clients the importance of letting go. In other words not trying to change themselves or the object of their affections in the name of love. "Giving readings has taught me to love more unconditionally," tells Tara Joan ext. 9256. "When we're young, we just want what we want when it comes to love. We don't always think about how a specific person is going to fit into our lives or what they might want for themselves. People tend to envision the future as they want it to be and feel rejected when another person doesn't have the same vision. I've learned to let a situation be what it is and have become less attached to a particular outcome with a specific person. More than anything I want the person that I love to be happy, even if in the end that means he's happy with someone else."
When clients can't let go they often make the mistake of believing that the relationship is more important than their own needs and end up with people who are not right for them. People who are good at relationships, Tara Joan believes, are happy with who they are and with their lives. "They are flexible enough to accept a person as they are, because this person as they are is right for them… and they love themselves enough to walk away when the person or the situation isn't right."
"It's really a matter of knowing when to stay and when to let go. We spend way too much of our precious time on earth focused on unrequited love," Maryanne ext. 9146 reports.
Our psychics know from from experience tht there will always be someone else. The main reason people have such bad luck in love is because they are fearful that love is a scarce commodity and they may not find it again. They call frightened that they will be alone and never meet anyone else if they give up the person who is wrong for them. They call needing confirmation that their relationship is okay, knowing it isn't. I've learned from experience that people who are lucky in love know that it is their God given birth right to have love and be loved."
People who find love, are nurtured by it and grow with it, are patient and compassionate. They put themselves in their partner's shoes and are willing to compromise when it's reasonable to do so. Love needs space and breathing room to flourish. You can't make someone hurry up and love you - that's manipulation, not love. Selfishness and neediness drive love away, our psychics tell us.
If you think you are in love, then let it grow, our psychics strongly suggest. We all fall in love at different paces. If the other person is slower at falling in love than you are, give them time to see how they feel. The most asked question they get about love is, "Do they love me?" The answer is often in the question, "How do they treat you?" That's how you measure love - not in time, or cups, or carats - it has to come from the heart.
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