Prudence from Manila, Philippines, writes:
Hi. I’ve been wanting to talk to a California Psychic for a while because I do trust your site’s readings. Anyway, my question is this: I became friends again with an ex-boyfriend almost four years ago. Although he is living in California, we both make it a point to meet every time he comes home in the Philippines. We’ve slept together five times already but I feel he’s not ready to take our relationship to the next level. Although I have fallen in love with him again, I’m not sure if I should continue seeing him. I feel we have this very strong connection but most of the time I get puzzled by his indifferent behavior towards me. Is this because he is a Gemini or he just can’t stand seeing me? Should I continue seeing him or move on with my life? I would really appreciate your reply. Thank you very much.
Dear Prudence,
Thank you for reaching out. Even though I am quite biased, California Psychics does take great pride in selecting their psychics. They really do take the time and put forth the effort and testing to ensure that their psychics are the best of the best. It really is an honor to be part of the team.
Your Gemini may seem indifferent at times, but a lot of that seems to be a measure of self- protection rather than revealing of his deeper feelings. He does present as being a bit commitment-phobic, but that will change, if you choose to give this relationship enough time.
The two of you are very strongly connected, and ultimately more compatible as lovers now than you were in the past. The distance is a bit of a challenge for him, though. It’s not that he can’t stand seeing you, it’s just than he has concerns with his own ability to maintain and progress a long-distance relationship. So, even though he sees the potential, and does have deeper feelings for you, he is and will continue to be rather guarded or nonchalant.
His Gemini nature creates a very natural conflict within him, as to whether he should put more effort into deepening your relationship, or continue to keep things as they are. He very much would like to continue being able to see you and be intimate with you, but he also wants to avoid promises, plans, and drama. However, as long as you remain open to him and this relationship, he will continue coming around.
For all intents and purposes, your relationship is still in the very early stages. He isn’t ready to fully commit to you or more clearly define this relationship. If you can be accepting of that, things between the two of you will slowly come together and solidify into the traditional relationship that you desire. However, it’s not going to be easy, because it looks like this is a process that will cover a two-year span of time. Even though it is going to be difficult, he really is the one you want. Even though you will have plenty of opportunities, and you will choose to date other guys, your heart will lead you back to him.
The best thing I can tell you is to set your boundaries, honor yourself, and don’t put your life on hold. Ultimately, things will work out between you and your Gemini– not because you sit around patiently waiting, but because he will mature more emotionally and actively cause his relationship with you to evolve.
Best wishes,
Red
