Many men have a hard time reading women. This could be (at least in part) because boys haven’t been taught to read emotions as attentively as girls have been.
Because of this early training, men end up at a serious disadvantage when it comes to picking up on emotions and non-verbal cues.
Like anything, reading emotions can be learned. Improving your skills in this area is a worthwhile investment. Cultivating your emotional acuity will improve your relationships and communication skills, from the bedroom to the boardroom. No matter where you are or who you’re interacting with, the ability to read non-verbal cues such as body language and facial expressions can create a more amiable environment.
That said, not all things must be read in order to be known. There are a few things that every woman wants. (And probably, most men want at least some of these things, too.) So, while you brush up on your people-reading skills, you can rely on this quick list to make it easy to let your lady know just how much you care.
1. Your woman wants to be adored by you. Tell her you love watching her sleep. Tell her you love falling asleep next to her at night. Tell her you’re grateful she chose you.
Bring her coffee in bed. Call her when you are apart – even if only for a few hours – just to tell her that you love her.
Give your loved one little gifts at random. These may be trinkets that remind you of her, or a simple yet sweet action, such as drawing her a bath or rubbing her feet without being asked.
2. Your woman wants to be noticed by you. This means paying attention to her appearance. Compliment her on her choice of clothing. Tell her she looks beautiful, hot, sexy, gorgeous.
Be warned: most women do not want to hear “You look nice!” We want to hear “That looks AMAZING on you!” or “Wow! I love how you did your eyes tonight.”
3. Your woman wants to be taken care of by you. Pay attention to her mood, as well as the surface beauty. Notice when the conversation shifts. Pay attention to her vulnerability.
Remember that your woman may not want you to be the “fix-it man” when she hits an emotional moment. Perhaps there’s nothing that needs fixing!
When in doubt about what might be wanted or needed, ask. Asking is a wonderful, caring, sweet way of taking care of your lady. Ask if she wants to be held. Ask if she wants to talk about it. Ask if there’s anything you can do to make it better.
Lasara Firefox Allen is an author, educator, activist, and coach. Lasara’s first book, the bestselling Sexy Witch (Llewellyn Worldwide), was published in 2005 under the name LaSara FireFox. Lasara is available for coaching in many areas, including the arenas of romance and relationships.
9 thoughts on “How to Give Your Woman What She Wants”
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When in doubt about what might be wanted or needed, ask. Asking is a wonderful, caring, sweet way of taking care of your lady. Ask if she wants to be held. Ask if she wants to talk about it. Ask if there’s anything you can do to make it better.
what if she’s you are not happy yourself?
Your woman wants to be taken care of by you. Pay attention to her mood, as well as the surface beauty. Notice when the conversation shifts. Pay attention to her vulnerability.
what happens to his?
Your woman wants to be noticed by you. This means paying attention to her appearance. Compliment her on her choice of clothing. Tell her she looks beautiful, hot, sexy, gorgeous.
i disagree with that what if i dont see any of thoses? must i be a liar? what happened to trying to impress the personne you love?
what happens if her nasty inside overtakes the beauty outside?
You really make it seem so easy with your prosantetien but I find this topic to be actually something which I think I would never understand. It seems too complicated and very broad for me. I am looking forward for your next post, I’ll try to get the hang of it!
And PS…..
….Little love notes, wrapped around the stem of a single flower can be VERY romantic and sexy sweet!
( I’ve kept all of my love notes and letters given to me over the years, in an album with pressed flowers…….makes for nice memories ).
I look forward to reading more articles by this author…..Lasara FireFox Allen !!!!
Blessed Be )O(
Gina Rose ext.9500
It’s important to be sincere with your compliments…..
….so choose something about her you really like, like telling her her legs are sexy, or her eyes, etc…….because she will know if you are just spitting out words. It’s not so much the words, but the energy behind the words she will feel and respond to.
Another good article.
Blessed Be )O(
Gina Rose ext.9500
It’s true, men aren’t usually trained to read emotions very well. My callers often say, “Doesn’t he realize how bad I feel?” “Didn’t he realize I was mad?” “Why didn’t he react when I __________?”
The truth is often that he couldn’t read the cues that would have been obvious to a woman. However, if your guy isn’t exactly Sherlock Holmes in this area, that doesn’t mean you should give up. Open communication is the way to go. Wait until some of your pain / anger / disappointment has dissipated, then find a time and talk it over.
Reed
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Hello Lasara,I loved this! Great examples.
Thanks,
Miss Krystal