I Love You, But Why Don’t You Love Me?
Brenda from Dubai asks:
Why do we find sometimes that we fall in love with someone, but they’re not in love with us? Then we have someone fall in love with us, and we’re not in love with them. It’s so frustrating!
Psychic Red ext. 9226 Responds:
Dear Brenda,
Love is a strong yet delicate energy, and not necessarily the easiest to navigate! Sometimes, we love those who don’t return the feeling, or vice versa, because of past life connections and sometimes because we or they hold the role of influence or “teacher” in this life. There are also those experiences that are unworkable at a particular moment, because of free will or divine timing.
There really isn’t a single or simple answer to your question, because each experience, and the explanation for it, is always unique to the parties involved.
Love, and finding love, can be undeniably painful and frustrating. But, when you find it, and it is the right one, things have a funny way of working out. Ironically, that often brings answers and clarity to all the situations that came before.
Life is about love and loving, one of the great mysteries we’re all supposed to endure and explore. Some of us have happy endings, and others don’t, but you will. So continue to follow your heart, but pay attention to the head, and you will be grateful that everything worked out the way that it did.
Brightest Blessings.
Red
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9 thoughts on “Red Responds: He Doesn’t Love You”
I once read a comment on someone’s profile that I think is worth sharing here…
“Someday someone will walk
into your life and make you
realize why it never worked
out with anyone else” Anonymous
Keep the faith!
This is for Pete, It seems to me you are facing something that most of us have or will face in this lifetime, which is the wrenching, stabbing pain of rejection that changes your life forever. All I can say is my thoughts are with you and I will pray your burden is lightened. You will wake up one day and say “today I don’t hurt” When that happens, you will come out of a cloud and see everything anew. You will get through this, you have to just ride out the pain and know that there are better days ahead. Only Time Heals Heartache.
I met this guy last August and we have flirt off and on for over a year now. We have had inimate moments but I am so confused about whether he really want something with me or just enjoying playing this cat and mouse game. I want to truly release these feelings I have for him and get over my attraction for him. Why can’t I shake this attraction and just forget about him?
Happy Halloween, RED! angel huggies, miss krystal
Will my husband and. I get our marriage back on track How can I get the closeness back for him after he had a affair We are working it out but ther is still no sexual contanct with him How cn I get him to want to get our closeness back
when will i ever find someone who realy loves me, i have been in a relationship for the past 8 years, but its a long distnt relationship ?’& it seems as if it is more of a friendshiip than a loving relationship
Red, as a Psychic are certain subjects easier to ascertain their meaning or “answer”? Is Love a more clearer “vision” than say, someone that is obsessed with a thing or person? And may themselves even think, that it’s real Love and not infatuation.
Another way at looking at it is> Is an older person easier to read for than a say, teenager? Who might have possible body hormones at work that could “blur” or “Cloud” a reading.
Or, am I way out of my league as far as subject matter to be asking such questions?
Either way Red, Thank you for your time and effort.
Lynn
I FELL FOR A GAL THAT I CANT GET OVER, AND ITS BEEN ALMOST A YR…SHE S MOVED ONTO ANOTHER GUY..SO WHAT DO I DO , NOW THAT SHE DOESNT LOVE ME..
I ADORE HER..I LOVE KITTY MORE THAN MY X WIFE THAT I WAS WITH FOR MORE THAN 18 YRS…I WANT HER BACK SO F..ING BAD..I’D GIVE LIMBS, ANYTHING FOR HER AND IF IT DIDNT WORK, ID DIE AND H AVE NO PROBLEM WITH IT..I DONT FEAR DEATH..WHAT DO I DO.??THIS IS A CHALLENGE TO WHAT U FOLK PREACH…HELP ME..X0..PETE FROM LONG ISLAND..THIS WILL PROVE TO ME THAT ALL OF THIS IS TRUTH….THANX…HAPPY ALMOST HALLOWEEN..
I have been with mi gurl friend 6 1/2 yr and the last two 1/2 yrs she has been seeing abt 5 five everytyme I kick her out she’s gone abt a month and half two months it’s been hell lovin someone that’s all over the place and in different women face. She has mi heart and soul what do I do .. Just stop lovin her or walk away from all these yrs..