The Struggle to Stay Together
I have a very special client. She started reading with me early on my journey with California Psychics. She was in a relationship with a man who was very painful and agonizing to her heart and spirit. He would come and go, leaving her with empty promises. There were problems integrating families. He would spend endless hours on the dating site where they met. She would watch him on the site obsessively. Her response was one of rage and exhaustion. She was in spiritual turmoil.
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Mixed Emotions
She came to me through divine intervention with a mixture of emotions. She loved him, she hated him and most of the time, she thought it was hopeless. But, I always saw them together. I would say, “Please understand, he loves you deeply. He’s not out of your life and you will be choosing between two men.” She called my prediction the “No Way” prediction. She didn’t think they would stay together.
Spiritual Intervention
There was one session where she was so emotionally depleted. She said, “Anasela, please tell me it’s over. I can’t bear it anymore.” My reply was almost immediate! It almost startled me. I said, “When a goblet is full of one’s desires and needs, there isn’t any room for spiritual intervention.” She shouted, “What the hell is that suppose to mean?” I laughed and explained to her that there is a universal energy that surrounds us if we stress that energy with wanting to direct and manipulate events. It sends a message to the universe that you’re not ready to receive. I could feel that she was getting angrier and frustrated. “Ok, so what do I do now?” she asked.
Destiny vs. Fate
She’d already started the process by allowing herself the kindness to stop trying to manipulate and direct her relationship energy. I went on to explain that there are times when a couple must evolve apart in order to move forward together. In sessions that followed, I explained that we often confuse destiny and fate to be one of the same. It’s not. Destiny is written before we draw our first breath. With fate there are many paths that lead to the same place. Often times we’re unsure where we’re headed and we feel lost and confused. But all paths lead to where we’re destined to be. I told her that she was destined to marry this man.
Our calls went on like this for a few years, when all of a sudden she stopped calling me. I would continually send her blessings and surrounded her with white light to keep her on course and for strength. I would also send him blessings for courage to leave the past in the past and to follow her heart.
A Marriage
Then the call came. Before I took the call, I was overwhelmed by such a sense of total joy and happiness. It made my eyes tear. I took a few seconds to compose myself. The second I heard her voice, almost in a scream, I said “You married him!” She laughed and said, “My dearest friend, you always said you would know before I said hello. Yes, we’re married. Yes I had to choose between two men and yes, it’s still difficult with the families. I love you and you’re always in my heart. Thank you for the gift of hope.”
I wish them a long and happy marriage!
Psychic Anasela ext. 5154
12 thoughts on “Why I Encouraged Them to Stay Together”
This is a beautiful story and it truly touched my heart and soul maybe because I can resonate with the woman’s pain and anguish. The word that comes to mind is helplessness but then time goes by and that seems to help. Time and hope from folks such as yourself along with my spiritual supporters are what have grounded me and kept me going. I too have come to you for guidance and direction regarding a man I feel I sacrificed and who I feel was taken from me. I believe he and I are meant to be together but it’s been a long and trying road and even though I feel like giving up something within me always speaks to me and says “when you least expect it, it will happen”? You have given me hope and light when it seemed so dark and hopeless. Your batting record in accuracy is impressive and you told me we will be united and together and happy again (-= Do I believe you – yes I do. I believe in you Anasela – I know you wouldn’t steer me in the wrong direction and if you thought I should run for the hills from this man you’d say so. You provide me with a gift of my future of what’s to come and I feel teary eyed thinking about it now as I type this but I know it’s going to come to fruition because you have seen it already. I’m truly blessed to know you. I too hope one day I’m able to call you and tell you “I was wrong for doubting you and you were right all along and how we are now happy together – thank you (oh yea and that I’m expecting twins – yea ok you didn’t tell me this part but I threw it in since I’m on a roll might as well make all my dreams come true – lol)! Please keep me and the man I love in your thoughts and prayers.
Hugs and kisses
This is a beautiful story and it truly touched my heart and soul maybe because I can resonate with the woman’s pain and anguish. The word that comes to mind is helplessness but then time goes by and that seems to help. Time and hope from folks such as yourself along with my spiritual supporters are what have grounded me and kept me going. I too have come to you for guidance and direction regarding a man I feel I sacrificed and who I feel was taken from me. I believe he and I are meant to be together but it’s been a long and trying road and even though I feel like giving up something within me always speaks to me and says “when you least expect it, it will happen”? You have given me hope and light when it seemed so dark and hopeless. Your batting record in accuracy is impressive and you told me we will be united and together and happy again (-= Do I believe you – yes I do. I believe in you Anasela – I know you wouldn’t steer me in the wrong direction and if you thought I should run for the hills from this man you’d say so. You provide me with a gift of my future of what’s to come and I feel teary eyed thinking about it now as I type this but I know it’s going to come to fruition because you have seen it already. I’m truly blessed to know you. I too hope one day I’m able to call you and tell you “I was wrong for doubting you and you were right along we are now happy together – thank you (oh yea and that I’m expecting twins – yea ok you didn’t tell me this part but I threw it in since I’m on a roll might as well make all my dreams come true – lol)! Please keep me and the man I love in your thoughts and prayers.
Hugs and kisses
I too am in a mess of a relationship. I love him deeply but had to walk away do to his obsession. We’ve been apart almost 6 months and my feelings of love for him will not die. I lost who I was and my self respect believing he was what he said he was. He contacted me saying he couldn’t live without me anymore and me wanting to believe that gave him another chance. 2 weeks later he said let’s forget it, we can’t go back to the way things were. Well no, they didn’t work that way. When can I be done with him and the hurting inside. When will the love I have for him be gone. I moved 5 states away 6 months ago so I wouldn’t go back until I could be strong enough to see him and not die inside. I miss my kids and grand kids so much and really want this to stop. Please help me end this pain inside.
This is a beautiful ending. Maybe I should call you for a reading.
HELL O DEAR. VERY ENCOURAGING STORY I AM FROM GHANA AND CURRENTLY IN A RELATIONSHIP AND WOULD WANT TO KNOW IF IT WILL END IN MARRIAGE. CAN YOU HELP. MORE INFORMATION IF REQUIRED. HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU. THANKS
HELLO DEAR PSYCHIC, NICE READING THIS ENCOURAGING STORY. I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP AND WOULD WANT TO KNOW HOW IT WILL END, MARRIAGE OR NOT? CAN YOU HELP ME PLEASE. MORE INFORMATION IF NEED BE. THANKS
BERNARD
I am curious to know HOW many years this went on? I am now passed the 7 1/2 year mark and wonder if this will be the year. I have had some of the best tell me “he is the one – your soul mate. You will be married and be happy together”. As he fights his demons, I try to keep my spirits up. Yes, hope can be a good thing but it can also be devastating, especially as one sees the years go by. I am not a young woman; he is my age and we are closer to 60 than not. Your client was how old when this started? and how many years did she wait for this man? There are times I am so tired of waiting that I wish my life would end. But my faith in God, the Guides and Angels keep me here, struggling but alive. I don’t usually write after reading such articles but the timing has peaked my curiosity. I wonder if you will reply! My thanks!
Hi Anasela,
I am from India.Would like to chat with you may I know how I would be charged?
love
Reema
Hello ,
i have the same story buti do not know what is my destiny.so could you please help me?.
Thank you,
Rupinder
Thank you Anasela I also enjoyed reading this story. I am currently in a similar situation. I hope mine is a happy ending as well.!
I really enjoyed reading this. Thank you for sharing Anasela. I continue to have Faith in what you have told me in our readings, and hope I have the happy ending like she does.
That’s truly beautiful. Similar to my stituation. My fav physic has told me that I will be together with my man and nothing will stop it. We are meant to be. Just timing was off. It should be our season now. And I can’t wait. It’s nice to hear story full of hope like that.