Psychic Q&A: He’s a Two-Timer

Two Women, One Proposal

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Dear Daphne,

I met him about three-and-a-half years ago and we were close until he turned out to be a two-timer. Over the years we have always kept in touch for the most part. I fell for him and a few months ago I told him how I felt. I thought my confession would ruin things, but he insisted that it didn’t. In fact, he said he felt the same way about me! The only problem was that he had a girlfriend.

He has told me on several occasions that he isn’t happy with her and he is trying to figure out how to break up with her without being a total jerk. I understood, and I respected that about him. However, I just found out that he has proposed to her! It’s devastating. Why would he tell me he has feelings for me and that he’s going to leave her, but then ask her to marry him? It ripped my heart out.

Ever since they got engaged he hasn’t responded to my texts. Was that two-timer deceiving me the whole time? I just can’t forget about him, and something deep inside is telling me there’s more to the story that I don’t know right now. I reached out to my Tarot reader, and she is puzzled too. All my readings with her said that he and I would be together, but once he got engaged, our future disappeared from my readings and no one can tell me what happened and why. Do you know what happened?

J.H.

Psychic Daphne ext. 5417 responds:

Dear J.H.,

I am so sorry for all you have been through! It sounds heartbreaking and confusing, to say the least! I hope my insight can help shed light in dark corners and give you greater peace of mind today and in the future.

He was being honest when he said he had feelings for you, however, I believe he was not as clear in his decision to leave his girlfriend as he seemed. When he told you that he had feelings, he was really saying that he finds you attractive, intriguing, and curious. But what he left out was that his girlfriend also has a special place in his heart too. He thought about breaking up with her because there were a few things he didn’t love about her. Those things had planted a seed of doubt in him for a time. But even when he said that he would break up with her, he knew he may not break up with her. He wanted to keep his options open with you.

He made a choice—something we all must do in order to move forward in our lives, for better or worse. His decision was to choose this other woman and unfortunately for you he was not forthright about it. The right thing for him to do would have been to say that he had made his choice in love, was moving towards marriage with his current girlfriend, and could no longer share a closeness with you. Part of why he did not say that is frankly because he was embarrassed. He didn’t have the confidence to face up to his decision because he knew it would seem like he had lied about his feelings. So, he avoided having the hard conversation with you. That was easier for him.

As far as I can see, he reads as a person who has difficulty making decisions and standing by them in his strength. That is a waffly characteristic when it comes to romance! I wouldn’t anticipate it changing. While I don’t believe he intended to hurt you, he knows he has and it’s not his nature to try to mend fences.

I know none of this is easy to read but I would rather you know the truth than hold out for someone who is not able to treat you with the respect and level of communication you deserve. I can’t speak to what another reader saw and I’m sorry that no one saw this coming. That probably feels like having the rug pulled out from under you.

You said you thought there was more to the story and I agree. The golden nugget here is that now you have room for the kind of relationship you desire in your heart of hearts. So when it comes, you won’t have to be the one telling him how you feel or reaching out to him. A man worthy of you will make it obvious. No guessing. No games and no wondering. And that is something to look forward to!

With love and peace,

Daphne

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