Red Responds: He Was too Shy to Tell Her

Red,

I have tried several times to get through to you on the line, however you are so popular and I can never get through! Three years ago I became reaquainted with a guy I knew as a teenager. We lived in the same building. He just turned 50, I am 47. He confessed to me that he had a crush on me back then but was too shy to talk to me. He also told me that over the years he has tried to contact me. We are still in contact three years later. Do you see us having a long lasting relationship, possibly marriage?

Sylvia in the Bronx

Dear Sylvia,

While your question is very direct and straightforward, it seems like there is more going on here than what you have written. I’m also picking up on more people involved in this scenario than just the two of you. Because of these factors, I’m not going to be able to get as detailed as I’d like with your answer.

As a side note – you win the “trip up the psychic” prize!

What I can tell you for certain without actually talking to you, is that the interest and attraction does seem to be mutual. The two of you have the premise for a solid foundation for a romantic relationship, but there is still some work to be done in order to clear the way for that path.

It seems like just how far this relationship goes is directly related to what each of you is willing to do in order to make it happen. Someone needs to actively take the lead. At the very least, the friendship will remain; I’m not seeing any endings of communication.

I really would like to speak to you in order to get more in depth. You’ve got me curious!

Brightest Blessings,
Red
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