Dear Red, Please help me and give me direction. I feel I lost my chance with my husband because I was not honest with him and he with me. Our marriage was very bad and many devastating things happened ... read more

Dear Red, You have given readers such great responses to their questions that I feel compelled to ask you about what is troubling me in the hopes that you may provide some insight. Eighteen months ago I ... read more

Dear Red, I met a guy about 6 months ago. We started dating right away. He is from New York. He moved to California for a job two months before we met. After dating for two months, he sent me an e-mail to ... read more

Dear Red, I feel like I am stuck! I am five months pregnant and have a very bad relationship with the father. He lives in another state but is moving here soon. I don’t know if I should try to get ... read more

Dear Red, I have been writing to you almost every month. I really hope that you will take time to give me some insight and guidance on my question. I am never lucky in love, Red. I am seldom attracted ... read more

Dear Red, This is my second letter to you. I apologize for being so impatient that I have to write again. I don’t understand what is going on with me right now. I tried talking to friends and family ... read more