Dear Red, My boyfriend and I were together for 2 years when he suddenly fell off the face of the earth. He is in the Navy and we mostly have a long distance relationship (a few hours apart). I figured that ... read more

Dear Red, I met a man back in 2002 on a personal line. We hit it off great. We have children the same age and I accepted his boys. But he has had a hard time with my son, because my son just won’t ... read more

Dear Red, I consider myself a strong person, but I’ve found myself in the corner not knowing where to go. I have been in a six year long-distance relationship with the person who cared about me, ... read more

Dear Red, I am so overwhelmed that I am not sure where to start… To make a long story short, I met a man last May (2005) and gradually fell in love with him. We broke up briefly (after I blurted out ... read more

Dear Red, I recently returned to California after living in the East Coast for 12 years. I left behind some good friends and some not so good. I also left behind a male friend, who I was seeing for 9 ... read more

Dear Red, I just seem to have no luck in relationships. I was married and my ex decided when I was seven months pregnant that he did not want a family (we planned this together in agreement) and walked out ... read more

Dear Red, I was in a relationship for five years and five months – it was a roller coaster ride for me and my boyfriend. We were talking about engagement and getting married after he finished his law ... read more