setting boundaries

Mind, Body & Spirit
March 16, 2022

The Importance of Setting Boundaries in Your Life

Boundaries and Respect Expressing your boundaries is a proactive way to recognize your own limitations and share them with others before reaching a state of crisis. You cannot expect anyone else to know ... read more

Love & Relationships, Mind, Body & Spirit
October 29, 2014

Psychic Spencer: Have Compassion for Those Who Attack You

When you feel attacked, it's easy to get defensive, but you shouldn't. It's all about compassion and compassion strengthens you spiritually. Here's how. read more

Mind, Body & Spirit
September 10, 2009

Stop The Insanity

Our tendency when we feel overwhelmed is to want to address it all... and right now! But by choosing one or two areas to work on at a time, we can achieve more, and more easily. If you've bitten off more ... read more

Love & Relationships, Psychic Questions
July 28, 2009

Red Responds: Her Boyfriend Dumper Her for Her Daughter

My boyfriend of one and a half years just dumped me for a younger woman - my 18-year old virgin daughter! I feel betrayed and crushed. I lost my daughter, my boyfriend, two best friends and my "family" ... read more

Love & Relationships
May 14, 2009

Is It Real Love?

After much searching, you've finally found the perfect match! But like everything in life it's never quite that simple. You soon discovered that while you fancy each other you don't share any of the same ... read more

Love & Relationships, Psychic Questions
May 7, 2009

Red Responds: Excruciating and Wonderful

I am very much in love with a man who suffers from bipolar disorder. He is on medication, but he has ups and downs which are always affecting our relationship, in many different ways. In the past, he ... read more

Destiny & Life Path, Psychic Questions
May 3, 2009

Red Responds: What Direction Should She Take?

I feel the ground shift beneath my feet. I am in a bad marriage that has technically been dead for about five years now. In Graduate school I became politicized and he remains a right wing conservative ... read more

Mind, Body & Spirit
March 21, 2009

Quiz: Are You Vulnerable?

Ah, vulnerability read more

Mind, Body & Spirit
February 2, 2009

Your Balancing Act

One of the great challenges of contemporary life is maintaining a balance between personal space and time, and the demands of public and private life. With the ever-increasing advantages new technology ... read more

Love & Relationships
May 22, 2008

First Date Sins

There's no second chance at a first impression, so why sabotage a first date? Look, everyone's nervous, but that's no excuse to leave your manners at the door, your boundaries back at home and your brain ... read more

Mind, Body & Spirit
January 24, 2007

Don’t Be Nice

Do you find it difficult to say no? Do you have a fear of displeasing others? Do you have trouble expressing your true feelings? Do you use a sweet syrupy voice when asking for something? Basically - are ... read more