Linda from Indiana writes:
I hope my Guides will help me. This horrible time in my life started about four years ago when my husband retired. He and I invited a young fellow to stay with us to help get the house fixed up so we could sell it. Well, being with the young man brought back a spark in me that I thought had died a long time ago. He was someone to talk to that heard everything I said, someone to laugh with, someone to have fun with. Needless to say, that was the end of me and the Ex-, probably the biggest mistake of my life.
This carefree person, who was so full of life, who seemed to care so much about me, has become a monster. He has brought me down so low, and has made me feel so stupid. I can’t talk to him without him screaming at me and breaking stuff. My mother lived with us, and he was the same way to her. That’s when I told him to leave, because I couldn’t take seeing my mom cry. He threw me on the floor and hurt my back.
See, the thing is, if I called the police on him to get him out of my house, I’m afraid of what he would do after he got out. I also worry that if I ever could get him out of the house, I wouldn’t be able to afford it. I don’t make enough money.
Please ask, what am I supposed to do? Is there anything that looks positive in my life coming up? And why can’t I hear my Guides?
Thank you so much.
Dear Linda,
Here’s the most important bit of advice from your Guides. Get out! Now!!!
Don’t worry about your house and your stuff, and don’t give this man any hint that you’re preparing to leave. Just ask your Guardian Angel and Spirit Guides for protection, find a battered woman’s shelter, and go there, leaving everything behind for the moment. If he damages anything it will help your case. The shelter will provide a safe place to begin your recovery and get other assistance.
Then contact law enforcement to remove that man for you. Your abuser is quite a predator, and I believe he already has a criminal record, which should make it much easier for you to get the help you need. I suspect he’ll end up back in jail. These first steps won’t solve everything immediately, but they’re a start.
Your Spirit Guides and Angel are doing everything they can, but since you’ve had to shut down to endure constant physical, emotional, mental and psychic abuse, they have trouble getting messages to you. As soon as you’re able to start thinking clearly again you’ll start getting messages from them about your next steps. You’ll find lots of tips about how receive messages (even if you can’t actually hear your Guides) on California Psychics.
You will probably decide to sell your house, perhaps without moving back in, and I see you living with your mother in a pleasant apartment, perhaps in a new town. In a few years you should be able to repair your relationship with your ex-husband. It will naturally take you some time to recover, Linda, but do not doubt that you will!
