Being a single woman in today’s world can be a time of great personal growth, heart-wrenching loneliness and supreme happiness, not to mention utter annoyance at the sheer number of frogs you have to kiss in search of your prince. Here are some tips to help you get the most out of this special, frustrating, exhilarating time in your life:
1. Enjoy your alone time. Relish the freedom that comes with being single. In a relationship, you have to take the other person’s needs and feelings into account when making decisions. So while it’s just you, fill your time and life with activities that make your heart thump.
2. Be realistic about what a relationship can add to your life. It’s easy to imagine that your life will be perfect as soon as you meet your knight in shining armor. All your troubles will magically disappear and you two will live happily every after. But the trouble is, life isn’t a fairy tale. Yes, a man can add great joy to your life, but expecting one to solve all your problems seems like an awful lot to ask, wouldn’t you agree?
3. Understand that you want a boyfriend — you don’t need a boyfriend. When you feel like you need to be in a relationship before you can be happy, you automatically put a ton of pressure on every man you meet. Men can sense the neediness and desperation a mile away.
4. Relax about being single. Ever wonder why men suddenly find you irresistible the second you start seeing someone new? You’ve taken away that pressure, and your energy can then flow more freely and attract others to you.
5. Accept where you are. You are exactly where you’re supposed to be. Your being single serves a purpose in the grand scheme of your life. Perhaps you still need to change certain beliefs you hold about love, or maybe your guy just isn’t ready for you yet. Were you to meet him now, he wouldn’t be able to give you what you deserve.
6. Give yourself permission to stay home every now and then. You shouldn’t feel like you have to go out even when you feel utterly exhausted just in case He’s there. Everyone needs downtime to relax and replenish their energy.
7. Don’t wait to live your life. If you’ve always wanted to spend a summer in Italy or take up sailing, don’t put those activities on hold until you meet someone. You never know, whatever calls you may be precisely where you’ll meet that special someone.
8. Try not to obsess about your ex too much. When you feel lonely, your mind often goes back to thinking about your last relationship. While doing this can give you wisdom and understanding, not letting go of your ex will prevent you from finding the very thing to help you get over him: someone new.
9. Get to the root of why you’re single. Psychologists, therapists and other life improvement resources can work wonders at helping you uncover your unconscious beliefs that have been holding you back.
10. Don’t view your single status as a bad thing. Maybe you need this time to grow, heal, or focus on another aspects of your life.
11. Make yourself vulnerable to love. Opening up your heart can be very scary, so much so that you’ll sometimes avoid it altogether to spare yourself anxiety or pain. But only when you step outside your comfort zone will you get what you really want.
12. Keep your priorities in check. If meeting someone is high on your priority list, dedicate a percentage of your time each week to being in situations where potential suitors abound.
13. Flirt away. Use your single time to hone your flirting skills and strengthen your feminine powers. Flirting lets potential mates know you’re available and interested. When in doubt, smile.
14. Get the next meeting. When you meet someone you like, figure out a reason to see him again. Let him know where you’ll be that night and suggest that he stop by. Give him your card and tell him to let you know the next time he volunteers at that dog adoption fair or takes that special hiking trail.
15. Consult a psychic. Psychic readings can prevent you from unnecessarily going down the wrong path, give you much-needed clarity about what to do next, or confirm what you’ve been thinking all along. Take advantage of this valuable resource.
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Oddly enough, I don’t really care if I’m single. Sometimes I think I’m better off single after the luck I’ve had. =P
LOVE AND LIFE
It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful for that gift. Love is when you take away the feeling; the passion and the romance in the relationship and find out you still care for that person.
One sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go. When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look too long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on the porch and swing with never saying a word and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had. It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives. Giving all your love is never an assurance that someone will love you back. Don’t expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in the heart, but it doesn’t be contented for you know that someone grew in your heart.
There are things you’d love to hear that you would never hear it from the person whom you would like to hear them from but don’t be so deaf to as not hear it from the one who says it from the heart. Never say good bye if you still want to try. Never give up if you still can go on; never say you don’t love a person anymore if you can’t let go. Love comes to those who still hope although they’ve been betrayed by those who still need to love although they’ve been hurt before and to those who have the courage and faith to trust again.
It takes only a minute to get crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Don’t go for looks, they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth; for even wealth fades away. Hope you find the one who makes you smile. There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick him/her from your dream and hug him/her for real. Hope and dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, BECAUSE YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE AND ONE CHANCE to do all things you want to do. May you have enough hope to make you happy?
Always put yourself in other’s shoes. If you feel it hurts you, it probably hurts the person, too. A careless words may kindle strife, a cruel word may wreck a life; a loving word may heal and bless. The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves and not twist them with our own image; otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find them.
The happiest people don’t necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes their way. Happiness lies in wait for those why cry, those who are hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. Love begins with a smile, grow with a kiss and ends with tears. The brightest future will always be based on forgotten past, you can’t go on well in life until you let go for your past failures and heartaches. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life to the fullest so that when you die, you are the one smiling and everyone around is crying. Thank for contact me wait to read a mail from you….Have a wonderful day. Richard