In Pursuit of Lost Love
When one partner steps away from the relationship, can the relationship ever be restored? According to Quinn, it is possible to get your love to return to you after a breakup, if this is done in a safe and balanced way. Psychic Quinn shared her “3-part plan” and some other great ways to bring your lover back into your life and reignite your relationship if the reunion is meant to be. A reading with Psychic Quinn ext. 5484 can help you restore and heal your relationship. Try a love reading with her now!
The “3-Part Plan”
Quinn’s “3-part plan” can be applied to just about any situation:
1.) “First, have a clear picture defining exactly what you want.”
2.) “Then meditate and pray about it.”
3.) “Next, take action. If you don’t get up off your knees, you’re not going anywhere. Even on the Internet you have to press the right keys!”
Talking with Psychic Quinn ext. 5484 is a real delight; her warm manner sets you at ease as does her humor blended with the wisdom of experience. She helps many callers navigating love and relationship issues. Quinn told me, “I get a lot of different love questions. Love is my thing.”
These extra tips from Quinn can also help you:
Know Why You Want Him Back
Quinn explained why clear intentions matter: “Usually there’s a reason why someone leaves. Sometimes my callers can’t define why they want someone back. Ask yourself, what do you love about him? If you don’t know why you love somebody, it’s like trying to do a painting without a brush.” Get clear on your intentions with a personalized reading from Psychic Quinn ext. 5484.
“Then, write him a letter, call him up and invite him to dinner. Do what you can within limits. For instance, you can say ‘Ok, I’m giving you until February 14 to decide if you want to come back. Does that work for you?’ If he doesn’t return within a reasonable amount of time, then you’re going to have to open your heart to new possibilities.”
“People do get back together. Even after divorce, people do remarry each other. One of the most important things is to never bad-mouth him or her to family, because they will not be supportive of your reunion. With all that negative energy directed toward your relationship, the Universe won’t allow it to heal.” Psychic Quinn ext. 5484 can give you information to help you bring love back into your life. Call her today!
Use Feng Shui
Quinn had some feng shui tips to bring your love back into your life:
1.) “Write his or her name on a piece of paper, and put it in a pretty box next to your bed. Get a picture of a couple and put in the box. That usually draws the energy in. Add the coupling energy to the room, for example, two elephant knickknacks, two of everything. Red and pink are the colors of love you can add to your bedroom.
2.) “I tell people to take the TV and computer out of the bedroom, to make the bedroom just for sleeping and lovemaking. If it’s a small space, you can use screens to separate the bed area.”
3.) “No pictures of other family members in the bedroom. When you’re trying to work positive energy to get your man back, a picture of you together helps you focus on bringing that positive energy back around.”
Pray
“If someone doesn’t want to be with you and has stepped away from the relationship, you have to pray for the highest good of the situation. Try this instead of praying that they will return, because you can’t manifest the relationship when you’re in a place of wanting it more than they do.”
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147 thoughts on “The 3-Part Plan to Get Them Back”
i want my man to know i love him i do want to be with him ijust was hurt but i do love him if iam too late i hope i not too late i love you too deep to let go i am a fighter i dont give up so will you forgive me for be mean to you but i do love you but i admit a a jealous woman but you know i have been broken so many time in life but i deserve another chance
Hi Quinn,
Great tips! Keep up the great articles.
Will my son ever meet his father?
we spoke to each other only after he left the company, soon fell in love, we of two different castes… din’t hink of it when we got close…was crazy of each other that we even planned to elope, spoke t each others’ parents… cancelled ma engagement with another guy whom ma parents chose, keeping him in mind. after he visited his home town, he has had a negative opinion, did not tell me but avoided me ever since…soon he could not hide it and told me he wanted a break up, cause his family can’t accept it, cause he’s just 24 (today he turned 25), and cause he is still not settled yet in life, doesn’t want to be married so soon… what do i do? i’m so psyched that the stress level in me has ruined ma health, work performance and ma family tension about me as even i’m going to turn 25! they say… we do speak at times, only coz i try to… he is avoiding me, but i know he loves me deep down… but doesn’t want it anymore…
hi eveyone,
thank you for your questions and kind posts. i will do my best to get some more questions answered on thursday –
sure hope to get to talk to you all one day.
thanks again.
(Ivy – hugs and buddha bless to you)
-quinn
this boy was in love with me but didnt tell me and after 10yrs i have got him back he say he loves me even today the same as he used to do before but after spending time with me he feels that he cant marry me and stuff does he truly loves me or hust to pass his time he is after me.he says there r many reasons he cant marry me.Will u help me
Hi! Everything was so wonderful! Then it all became so complicated and confussed. Others interferiences didn’t help at all…his friends told lies about me, he listened and believed them. we no longer talk. I miss him so much! I use to have hope, now I have nothing. I only go to work and home, no more life left within me. I have his pix next to bed, I still where my engagement ring. This trouble started a year ago, haven’t spoken to him or seen him in over a month. I’m so lost without him.. I sent letter almost a month ago, no response. Nothing! People say time will heal my heart… I don’t believe them. He is the first man I ever truely loved. I will never love another, nor will I ever feel free enough to allow another to enter. I pray nightly for over a year for things to be better, for him to be here with me, for everything to be right between us again. I wish I knew……
Thank you for the help
Never and never fealth this way can’t even discribe it ,I know I was not right to do what I did ,but real bad timing for me ,I know, I’m the man she need .I understand what she did and glad she did it, made me find my self again ,love her family to death. It just crazy the feeling I have every day ,it feel like she will come back ,but I understand if she doesn’t because she so wonderfull, she is a miracle to me .my box is my hart,and faith is with me. if I do not see no signe after the love season, I guest that she happy and that OK because that what I want for her ,I’m ready to stop travveling for work because family come first ,love my angel<3 for ever.Please God protect this family for me
hi,
i am a married woman .got into a long distance relationship with a guy through internet 4 yrs back.he is also married and after a year of chatting on internet we realised that we love each other a lot and we both can not do without eachother hence we decided that we will marry but its not so easy in our country so step out of marriage and seek divorce as there is a lot of preassure from families.even then he went to the extent that he told his wife about us. even his mother has approved of our relationship as she wants to see his son happy because he was having a troubled marriage since last 12 years but his wife is not ready to divorce him. his inlaws are very influential people i dont know what has happened because i got an sms from him on sunday that he want to end this relationship as it will be best for all of us and our families will be happy.he is not even taking my calls and i tried calling so many times but his wife picks up his phone and say that he is bbusy call after sometime.then i called his friends .they also tried calling him but he didnt took their call also.then they tried his landline number and he just spoke to them for 10 sec and said”its all mess here,cant tell u anything.just sms ritu not to call me or msg me.”i am so worried about him .i love him so much that i cant live without him and i know he also loves me very much and what ever he smsed me was under some preassure or due to frustration.i am clueless what to do how to contact him.i am an actively practicing buddhism and praying for the protection of our relationship.still very scared what will happen and how to contact him.please help me if u can have some insight into it.
my husband abandoned us for almost 2yrs now..is there any posibility to unite us again…he stay outside my country..hop u can enlighten me..
my question is as everyone else. i’ve been dating this girl(we actually lived together) for 3yrs. we recently broke up bcuz of a dumb resaon. there has been this guy @ her work hounding her & that is who she is with now. he has 3 kids, she has one son. we were engaged. but anyways, we were fine (even her parents cant believe what has happened) this guy cant do as much for her or her son. how long do i wait or do i just move on & forget about her?my kids called her there step mom,her son called me his step dad & she had my grandson calling her nana. now that we are broken up she still wants to see the kids. what should i do about that? she left me, i didnt leave her. i dont think its right for her to see my children or grandson while she is with this guy. am i wrong? plz any help would be appreciated
Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 7years now going on eight. I have been good to this man. This man swears he loves me and wants to be with me. I hae spent money talking to physics trying to see if he really wants to be with me. He has gotten a baby on me and now I’m wondering if he has did this to me again. Wat to do!!
does this actually work
I have been seeing that guy on and off for almost 3 years and we have always been back together even when I tell him that I do not want the relationship anymore. He said that we belong to each other but I don’t know if it’s real now since I once again broke up with him a week ago. I have always been there when he needed my help and I am very supportive of him; we argue but at the end apologize to each other and move on. He said I cannot handle his lifestyle (most of his friends are basketball players and they do a lot of parties, witch I surely do not appreciate) but his excuse to me is that no matter what happens when he is out, he is always back to me and I am his lady.
I have to admit that I still love him and I think that he cares for me but I am very sick and tired of the lies and the disrespect. I really don’t know what is in store for me and I am wondering if I should just let it go for good, even if he tries to fix things and open myself up to a new era. I am definitely willing to try your recipe and/or maybe give you a call, but we will see.
Thank you.
He knows I am ok with him hanging with his single male friends as long as he tell me that he is with them and
I have a little issue I’m trying to come to acceptance with it and for the most part I have but there is still a part of me that wishes someday it could be more. I have strong feelings for a man that lives in
another state. I haven’t met him but we have been talking for a year now he is older has 2 kids. I just want to know what went wrong when we began talking we planned to meet one another to see where it would go I have never felt a strong connection with someone I haven’t met or slept with before. We have remained friends since we decided to not meet up and to not be together we have since dated other people but still we like each other and talk about meeting up in the future. I just don’t know whether to give up completely move on and find someone else even though he remains in my heart.
hi,
your article give courage to win back the man i love, i don’t know but my situation now is verr complicated, im just being positive in everything. thank you for the article!
i want to hear lot from you.
Quinn, thank you for your time. AMAZING article and advice!! I’m passing this on to several people:) Namaste and Hugs:) Ivy
Can you tell me if my ex husband and I will ever work things out. We both care for the other only he can’t forgive me for leaving him, I left due to all the fights and verbal abuse. Can or will he ever change?
I have been married 18 yrs. He has been an alcoholic for most of that 18 yrs. I want to work on the relationship but decided to seperate after he drank twice after my mother passed away. He is now on dating service sites and refuses to talk to me. We have seperated b4 for the same reasons and it seems like I am the only one who ever wants to work things out. He has gone through treatment several times but never commits to staying sober. He also had 1 affair that I know of and I have caught him texting other females. I am exhausted trying to fix it by myself while he does everything he can to destroy it. What would you do?
thanks denise
Been married 18 yrs. 4 kids and 1st grandchild. He has ben an alcoholic for most of our marriage and in out of treatment programs that he never commits to staying sober. We are seperated AGAIN because he drank twice after the passing of my mother. I would work on the relationship still but I am exausted with having to do it myself. It seems like the harder I try to work it out the harder he tries to destroy it. He is now on dating service sites and refuses to talk to me.
hi deborah,
your questions was –
I’ve been seeing this guy for 2yrs. I wouldn’t say that he’s “left” the relationship, but he’s always remained very distant. I’ve asked several psychics and spent lots of $$$ to find out if he loves me, if we have a future, if..if…if.. How do I know when to let go and move on? I used to pray for us to be together but now I just pray for the outcome that’s best. How will I know the answer. TY!!!
love that you are praying for the best outcome – now take him out of the mix and only pray for you to be happy in a great relationship – a few frogs might get in line for that magic kiss but the prince will be riding in on a white horse.
you know when to let go when it is to hard to hold on.
have a great nite.
-quinn
I have been married for 7 yrs, my husband and I haven’t been together since April 11, we have 3 kids, he lives with another woman, I want our family back together, what can I do?
will blake want me again
I’ve been seeing this guy for 2yrs. I wouldn’t say that he’s “left” the relationship, but he’s always remained very distant. I’ve asked several psychics and spent lots of $$$ to find out if he loves me, if we have a future, if..if…if.. How do I know when to let go and move on? I used to pray for us to be together but now I just pray for the outcome that’s best. How will I know the answer. TY!!!
hi gloria,
So how many day should one keep them in the Box?
good question…
you set the amount of time you want to give the situation. there is no set time –
things like how long you were together, how long you are apart, come into play when deciding your time line.
it takes about one week for each month of the time to get over someone as you were together. so try that amount of time…
if you were together for 2 months then try it for two weeks.
hope that helps.
-quinn
So how many day should one keep them in the Box?
dear babita you wrote –
my boyfriend has got another affair with a girl,and that girl adoing this even after knowing that the boy is already committed with me,and the boy finallt told me that i should accept this relation of him……wat i should do now…
sweetheart the girl doesn’t care about you – he is not committed to you, if he was he would not be seeing anyone else.
if you are willing to continue in this three way relationship he will be very happy – but what about you???
would he like it if you were seeing another man?
don’t blame the girl she is in the same place as you only she wants him at all costs.
take care,
-quinn
hi theodorebryant,
i will keep you in my prayers for a lovely relationship to come your way very soon.
you let me know when it happens.
thank you for your post.
-quinn
hi vonda,
you are so welcome. greg knows exactly what he is doing it is not his ex wife it is him that is playing ping pong with the both of you and he is loving it.
unless there are children they have no reason to see each other. i think you are right that she uses him when she is lonely and he takes the bait each time *because he wants to*
when he comes back and he will – don’t mention her don’t ask about her do not allow her to come between you.
only two people are allowed in your relationship and they are YOU AND HIM.
blessings,
-quinn
hi momo,
you wrote – i love him. and he loves me …but he never said the word ….he always tell me that i know that ….and i really know that…someday he was so angry about something at work an i talk about something mmmmm get him more angry then he said that we will not get married coz he is not ready and he don`t know if he will be ready for that or not…..should i leave him??but i cant i really love him but i am so hurted..what can i do?
to every problem there are at least 10 solutions. 1. stay 2. go. those are the easy ones right???
some men don’t say the words but they show you. some are all talk and don’t show any love.
a balance is needed in your relationship. if you leave him it will be over. if you stay you could get the man you love to marry you. but in the end is his anger going to go away after you are married? think about who he is, his nature, his actions and look at the big picture.
sounds like you could use a new guy.
blessing to you,
-quinn
hi Angela,
you forgive him for being angry… boy are you nice. mistakes happen, anything can be fixed. but im not sure that all mistakes that are fixed mean that a relationship is to move forward.
have a blessed day.
-quinn
I have been in an off again on again relationship for 10 years. We have a very strong connection. Weget along great, never fight and always have fun together. The problem is that he is bipolar and will break up with me for no reason.
Logically, I know that I need to move on but I feel that he is my soulmate and that no one else will get me like he does.
I have been seeing this Guy for 2yrs 1/2. We have not been in a serious relationship cause of his past.. I felling in love with him that I can’t see myself with out him. I am willing to settle down with him. I know he loves me cause he has said it to me. I can feel it, but for some reason now he wants to be solo and wants to be friends. I don’t know what is bothering him. I do know he has family problem and money problems. I love him and he does too. I don’t know what to do. Please help me to see does he want to be with me or is there someone else. He told me there is no one else. That he just wants time to think. What do I do?
hi everyone – i am going to come back soon and say hi to everyone who posted.
i just want to thank you all for your lovely stories and questions.
big thanks,
-quinn
hi Raymond Byabazaire,
your point is well taken, i think the same energy work applies to both men and women.
men however are more logical than emotional. so it might be harder for the guy to bring his emotions to the surface to get the girl back, considering ego and all.
great question.
-quinn
dear Gopinathan k –
age don’t mean a thing if you still got your swing…
love deepens the longer you are together. at least i like to think so.
we might lose our looks but never our charm.
have a great day.
-quinn
MARIE WROTE -I have been with this person for a long time and we never fight. He has always been caring and loving. Now I haven’t heard from him for 2weeks and I found out that he’s with another women but he’s not in love with her so way is he with her and not me. He didn’t even say anything to me about her ,just hasn’t called to talk or even to tell me where we stand. I miss him and want him with me. What should I do?
hi there marie, i want to say dumb him but i know you won’t –
there are things you can do that are pro-active. call me and we can talk about it.
have a great day.
-quinn
hi nancy – this is what you wrote.
Im in a long distance relationship, I like him very much, hes much younger than I but he says its fine. I really love him. Its an eight hour drive for him and hes been hers several times. I just wonder whats going on where he lives. Should I continue this or go on. Im just a one man woman.
long distance relationships require lots of trust. stop wondering what he is doing when he is not with you. have faith in your love for each other – and after 2 years if you are not on the same page find a local cutie –
thanks for your post,
-quinn
hi nancy,
this is what you wrote….
I’ve been in love with this man for 10yrs we were together for 6 yrs till he met this married woman and fell for her he dos come back but than she goes after him again and he goes back with her she des hhim wrong all the time he comes back and forth always I go crazy not knowing whats gonna happen next.
i feel for you my dear, i realize that you love him so much you allow him to come and go. well change the door to your heart. right now it is a revolving door – change the door – a nice solid one will keep him in if you want him to stay put or out if you want to let him go.
only you can stop this. so here is the power in your hands.
remember if you don’t make the change – change will not happen.
call me if you need to talk.
thanks so much for your post.
-quinn
i love him. and he loves me …but he never said the word ….he always tell me that i know that ….and i really know that…someday he was so angry about something at work an i talk about something mmmmm get him more angry then he said that we will not get married coz he is not ready and he don`t know if he will be ready for that or not…..should i leave him??but i cant i really love him but i am so hurted..what can i do
It was interesting reading.Ordinary people how helpless they are in a relationship.In our country such relations donot occur.If at all it is in secrecy.But then I wonder slowly when you
loose your youth and charm- What do u do?All these intimacies and fantasies are only for a short time.I u become ugly or aged- does a person think at all about such a situation? In my
opinion it is better to have a happy married relationship.Once in a while flirtations are OK
but then we have to have alot of patience and adaptability to lead a life with some body for
a long time.Give and take ,forgive and forget, unselfishness at least to some extent are
essential if a relationship is cherish and remain stable for a long time.
I have been with this person for a long time and we never fight. He has always been caring and loving. Now I haven’t heard from him for 2weeks and I found out that he’s with another women but he’s not in love with her so way is he with her and not me. He didn’t even say anything to me about her ,just hasn’t called to talk or even to tell me where we stand. I miss him and want him with me. What should I do?
HELLO MY NAMI STHEODORE AND I AM DEAF AND I AM BLACK GUT AND I HOPE WILL FIND GOT NEW REALTIONSHIP BUT I DONT KNOW WHO CONTRACT NEW PERSON OR OLD BACK WHICH ONE LET ME KNOW AS SOONER THNAK YOU AND I AM NO RELATIONSHIP FOR 6 YEAR NOW I AM REALLY GET MORE LOVE GETTING MARRYIND IN FUTRE OKAY THNAK U LET ME KNOW TMW
I’ve been in love with this man for 10yrs we were together for 6 yrs till he met this married woman and fell for her he dos come back but than she goes after him again and he goes back with her she des hhim wrong all the time he comes back and forth always I go crazy not knowing whats gonna happen next.
Im in a long distance relationship, I like him very much, hes much younger than I but he says its fine. I really love him. Its an eight hour drive for him and hes been hers several times. I just wonder whats going on where he lives. Should I continue this or go on. Im just a one man woman.
I am in this type of situation now. Greg and I have dated for a little over a year but his ex-wife keeps interfering, she told me that she only wants to see Greg happy but when she doesn’t have a man she pulls him back in just to have someone take her out. She walked out on him. When she isn’t interfering Greg and I fit together like a glove, we don’t fight, we laugh, we have similar interests, it’s just amazing! She doesn’t want him but she doesn’t want anyone else to have him. It’s very sad. I told him that she does this and I believe that he knows it is true. Greg and I aren’t together right now because of her but I honestly feel like he needs closure from her and perhaps then he can move forward and leave her behind. I really enjoyed reading this article and will try some of the things that you have recommended! I hope to even get a reading from you in the near future.
In love and light,
Vonda
mmmm! very true
my boyfriend has got another affair with a girl,and that girl adoing this even after knowing that the boy is already committed with me,and the boy finallt told me that i should accept this relation of him……wat i should do now…
I miss him and there were some terrible issues to where I am not aloud to contact him by law for 1 year and truly this was never suppose to happen and now there is nothing I can do this is one huge mistake I feel sorry and truly am and I hope he feels the same although he is angry I forgive him. In time fate will tell the story I just hope it turns out for the good next time so keep him safe.
Hi,
Your article “seems” to refer more to wanting “him” back. What about wanting “her” back? Any significant differences?
Raymond