7 Signs You’re Just a Booty Call

Are You Ms. Right or the Booty Call for Tonight?

Sex is such an enjoyable event for most men, they could practically make an entire relationship out of it. And in fact, some of them do. Here are the seven signs that you may just be a booty call.

1. He uses you to make himself feel better, and never tries to make you feel good.

A booty call can occasionally be a two-way street, but only when both parties understand the rules. A guy out for booty is only interested in one thing, and that is meeting his own needs. Your needs will always be sacrificed for his, so if you want something more out of the relationship, you’ll need to tell him how it’s going to be. If he’s not willing to share in the spoils, he’s just plain spoiled and not worth your time.

2. You’re his in-between thing.

You understand the situation, or at least you think that you do. He is a busy guy, yet he always has time to fit you in between one thing and another when it is convenient for him. Gee, that is really swell of him.

“If you are not in a relationship with someone, then love yourself.” – Psychic Fiona ext. 5178

3. He has lazy excuses to leave.

Guys may not always want to hang around after sex, and there are at least a half dozen reasons why. However, if you are really not that important to a guy, he will not be worried about losing you, and will make lazy excuses to leave once his needs have been met. He might say he has a lot of things on his mind or he forgot his toothbrush at home.

4. You feel sad and lonely after seeing him.

Sometimes the loneliness and sadness you feel about a guy when he leaves is not actually about him, but more of a red flag that you are not getting what you need from the relationship. Consider that most good relationships should leave you feeling happy, secure and safe. If the only time you are feeling truly happy is when you’re imagining how great things could be, maybe it’s time to be honest with yourself about what this relationship is really about.

5. His body language.

He may be all over you when it comes to sex, but when it comes to a simple hug, it will be just six fingers pressed against your back, and his head turned to the side. There are two heads to most every man, and the one on top of his shoulders is the one that will most likely give him away. Always pay attention to what a man says and what he does, because there shouldn’t be that big of a difference between the two.

6. He’s all talk and no show.

Some guys will play dirty. They may tell you all the things you want to hear to make you happy and get you in the mood. But when it comes to coming through with those plans, he will most certainly fall flat because he has no more incentive than the sex, which is actually not all that much.

“Love is the space between  sexuality and  intimacy.” – Psychic Joyce ext. 9598

7. All you talk about is when you’ll have sex next.

Booty calls almost never go into any details beyond what he is going to do to you the next time he sees you. There are no lunches with friends, barbecues with parents or walks through the park. It’s all about the sex. If you do run into a guy who is willing to play house a bit, you’ll know his true intentions if you pay attention to his words of endearment. A man in love will at least sometimes describe his feelings in some detail. The lazy booty call will most always leave it at a simple, “I miss you.”

A booty call can be enjoyed by women just as much as men. However, make sure that you are getting what you need out of the relationship, because every time you accept something less, you are only setting a precedent to never get what it is that you really want.

Are you trying to figure out whether or not you’re just a booty call? Find out what’s really going on with a reading from Psychic Bridget ext. 5249.