How to Break the Cycle
No one wants to be in a rebound relationship. Unfortunately this happens to many of us at some point in our lives. Most women learn their lesson after one rebound relationship, but others find themselves repeatedly being the rebound girl. If you have been in a relationship with someone who was clearly not over their ex, read on!
Friends First
If they have recently gotten out of a relationship, the “friends first” policy should always be in place. This way you can get to know one another better while determining where they are at in their healing process. It also allows them to see you as a unique individual as well as a completely separate entity from their last relationship. This is always the best foundation for a lasting bond.
“Partnership and friendship are the keys used to unlock the door to intimacy and love.” – Psychic Giovanna ext. 5214
Let Them Heal
The healing process is different for everyone, which is why each of us must take the responsibility for healing ourselves. This means they must do the necessary internal work to feel whole again. There are no shortcuts to this so this could take some time, but you want a complete person to begin a relationship with, not one who is haunted and mired in recollections of their previous relationship.
Have you taken the time to heal from your last relationship? Don’t jump into the dating pool again until you talk to Psychic Venus. ext. 9463.
Soul Searching
If you find that you consistently attract people on the rebound, you need to look into doing some internal work yourself. We all deserve whole and healthy partners who are able to give freely of their hearts and spirits. Once you work on your self-esteem and self-love, you should begin to notice that you’re not longer attracting damaged mates, but mates who are about to fully engage in a healthy and loving relationship with you.
You deserve a healthy and loving relationship. Get one with tips from Psychic Chastity ext. 5403!
6 thoughts on “Are You the Rebound Girl?”
Friends first? Can you say “Friend zone”. Anytime you start off “as a friend” with someone you usually end up being in the friend zone and never getting out of it.
To the Rebound guy in an earlier post… What a way to mend a broken heart! Oh so they think… Jaaa!
My girl friend broke up with me and a week later was dating I told her she is insecure that’s why she is doing this because every time she get out of a relationship she is in another week or two later
I agree its exhausting being the rebound guy! The women show at your door just wanting to prove to themselves that they were not at fault in their prior relationship! So you get great sex from them and then they leave…Oh wait thats not bad at all? Its when they stay it gets hard…
good advice, Alina !!!!
A good relationship takes time to build, but the foundation of an good relationship starts with companionship and friendship.
I was hoping to read signs of being a rebound so that we can spot them sooner ..