How to Have Better Sex

The Eternal Quest for the Perfect Orgasm

There is seemingly no end to the variables involved in sex, sensuality and eroticism, and the continuous journey to discover these delectable details and delights is at least half the fun! Let’s check out a few ideas you may have yet to slip into your boudoir’s bag of tricks and see if you can improve your sex life!

Blindfolding Basics

It may be common knowledge, but obstructing one of the five senses will indeed increase sexual awareness as other senses are heightened. Trusting your partner to take control and being pleasantly and erotically surprised about where they decide to touch, and when, can bring an exciting change to the bedroom that makes the difference between good and amazing sex.

You Can Leave Your Hat On

A part of playful sex can entail dressing up, or down. Playing with fun lingerie and the creative ways to take it off can be just as much fun as leaving selective and sexy articles on, like sassy boots or a saucy cowboy hat.

Location, Location, Location

Expanding your sexual geography will most certainly rev things up between you and your partner. The element of the unknown, of being caught, of even the slightest potential for danger can turn things from hot to scorching in a heartbeat. Have yourself and your partner think up of a few places yet to be conquered by the two of you and give it a whirl!

“Sex can be very emotional, but remember to look at sex in a practical view too so that it won’t dictate how you think you feel emotionally. If you can enjoy a person with or without sex, then that’s a special connection.” – Leo ext. 5265

Truth or Dare

Utilizing a twist on the timeless game Truth or Dare, the interplay between both of these elements can bring a whole new sensual light to your sexual experience. Whichever course you or your partner chooses, you are sure to learn more about one another’s turn-ons through dirty talk or physical experimentation. You really can’t go wrong!

A Hands-On Experience

Never underestimate the awesome power of touch, as there are an endless number of ways to use your hands and fingertips. Nothing replaces skin-on-skin contact, and using different types of pressure combined with an acute sense of your partner’s reactions will take the sensuality off the Richter scale every time. Where should you start? Talk with Psychic Julia ext. 9131 to find out!

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21 thoughts on “How to Have Better Sex

  1. Belle

    Wifey, you and your spouse created that beautiful child in the heat of passion for one another, are you tired of course you are, but remember that child shares you and him and so in time that will again draw you back to him. Keep the fire burning and don’t let him go by the wayside, communicate how you feel and then touch him with hugs and pats on the bottom and winks and smiles and you will both be ok. We had 6 children and always recovered. My spouse and I share the secret of each conception and I appreciate my wonderful blessings and see them in each child we had. After 34 years of marriage, he passed away, but he still remains in them and they are the best thing we created. You and your husband have a great opportunity in front of you. You are young and you do have the strength to take care of both baby and him and you. Best wishes

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  2. Belle

    Shirley Kennedy, never do anything that yu are not comfortable with. Sharing yur essence with just him and no one watching is how it is meant to be. All you need is too look at each other and feel the rhythms of each other. There is only one door that he can enter and both of you share each other tenderly and passionately. If that is not good enuf for him, and he needs more excitement by having others participate, then what he is saying is that you are not enuf for him. You deserve better and to share your essence with a deserving man. Look elsewhere for love, the opportunity exists. This is one area that you cannot accept his terms, life is too short and offers so much beauty and this will take its ugly toll on your emotional, mental and physical happiness and state of being. Find your love elsewhere. Know who you are and don’t let anyone try to change you. My best wishes.

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  3. DeeDee

    @wifey, you may be feeling some of what most of us mothers do after we have a baby. I didn’t want to do anything other than take care of my precious baby. In time, the need lessens but irregardless we do have to remember our other half. The different ways are difficult when we aren’t into it, so if you force yourself he won’t get the full pleasure off you if you wanted it. Try passing time by giving him more of the better things you enjoy doing to make up for your lessened situation. As long as he’s forthcoming towards you in an equal loving way you will make it thru this patch happy.

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  4. Wifey

    My husband and I just had our first child and we have been finding it difficult to spend anytime alone hardly and when we do it seems like he wants to try all these crazy moves which I have told him are hard for me and some things I just don’t feel comfortable doing And we are trying to become more intament but we find it difficult. Also sex just feels different to me now. What can we do to make things just as exciting as they were when we first met? I have been told to try role playing and trying to bring back that spark that was much more definnied then does anyone have any suggestions? Any would be appreciated thanks

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  5. Cody Williams

    After a 9 year divore/ custody and court battle in a foreign country. ( Japan ) Representing myself the first round, managed to get unlimited access to my children thus, a great success.
    I wasn’t interested in getting involved in any type of relationship for another 3 years after finalizing the divorce!!

    Patience and actually having that perfect mate in paid off big time. 5 months ago, I happened to meet a women for the first time for coffee which we stretched out into a 3.5 hour Nice to Meet You…. Conversation.

    A week later, I called to invite her over To my place for a nice home cooked American
    meal. I feel if You are honest, sincere, a bit
    playful, always ensuring to maintain good eye
    contact with your partner while
    communicating, establish total trust of each
    other touch and sensory perception activities.

    After dating for 5 months, it was evident we had fallen deeply in love with each other!
    Hence, I asked her if she would like to Marry and be together from this point forward?
    Of Course, I want to be with you forever.
    Proposed on July 15 and we will Marry on July 31!!

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  6. DeeDee

    (Pisces~Leo)I’ve been with him for 16 years, since I was 14…some long & some quickly passing. We have 4 kids, I can only vouch that spicey trials whether we prefer them afterwards only furthered our bond thru & thru. We have had “other ppl” during separations but in the end, for me I can honestly say he’s what I yearn for, what I may decide I want when I want to make a change with it & always be a great player, lover, and of course share in all other things too. Thats what makes us work this long, I can’t wait to be in my “60’s” & continuing to create new wonders so my message is to inspire ourselves, we have it within. Be open, be happy, live long.

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  7. shirley kennedy

    i have a sexual partner. does having sex while other couples watch spice up the sex life. this is what my partner thinks that will spice up the sex life. i prefer it just be us. what other choices do i got to spice it up other then this.

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  8. Maia

    Hi ive been with my boyfriend for five years and he moved so we started chatting by phone. Hes coming this summer and I want to do these things to him without him freaking out and leaving me. What should I do?

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  9. jeffrie percell

    Hi I meet this woman write me an email too me and said that she like me for real .and she want too know me more and she tell me an lot about her and I tell her an lot about me .but she want too come over to st.Thomas virgin islands terriorty .I would like too know what you think I should go for it because I only have one life too live I think I am going for it because I think me and she can build realationships too together .

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  10. Carly

    I just met a new guy we have only been talking on the phone cause we live in two different states but are planning on meeting soon and I already feel connected to him and just want to wow him in every way. I really like him and want to keep him around is there any tips he seems too good to be true sound I be worried

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  11. Gail

    I want to have more fun but my partner never wants to do any of these thing . He just likes the same old thing.

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