With the book and movie The Secret gaining so much popularity, the Law of Attraction has become a focus for many people. What most people don’t know, however, is that this is an ancient principle, not something new. Its first popularity, however, was due to… spirits of the dead!
Well, not exactly. In the mid 19th century, a new religion developed. Called Spiritualism, its main focus was the séance. People would gather and, with the help of a person known as a Medium, communicate with deceased loved one. Unfortunately, because the séance often took place in the dark, there was room for fraud. Although Spiritualism continues to this day, by the early 20th century it was losing popularity.
Spiritualism was more than just the séance. Some of the philosophy was adopted with other beliefs into a burgeoning spiritual trend called New Thought, the precursor to what is now called the New Age. Several New Thought writers used the expression Law of Attraction by name. It has two major concepts:
Like attracts like
Thought precedes manifestation
This is important: there is much more to the Law of Attraction than these concepts. Specifically, the simplistic idea that “if you just think about something you want you will bring it to you” isn’t enough. You have to work to manifest your desires.
Nowhere was this more apparent than in the works of the modern father of the Law of Attraction, Napoleon Hill. Hill met with wealthy industrialist Andrew Carnegie. Carnegie gave Hill introductions to some of the most famous wealthy people and great minds of the age. Hill interviewed them and discovered similarities that brought them success. In 1937 Hill published his most famous book, Think and Grow Rich, one of the best selling books in history.
Hill’s Mistake
Hill called his principles the Law of Success, but it was simply the most complete version of the Law of Attraction ever presented. Hill went on to write more books and a mail-order course, all of which were variations of his main book and often contained the same stories and examples.
One of Hill’s principles was that if you want something, you must focus your entire life and energy on achieving it. Yes, like attracts like: focus on something and, if you work for it, you can obtain your goal. Yes, thought precedes manifestation: you have to clearly determine your goal before you can determine what is needed to manifest it. But you also have to put all of your energies toward achieving that goal. You have to be single-minded. You have to turn all of your energies to achieving your goal and not to anything else. This means your every thought and action should be on your goal. And one thing that could drain you of energy and turn you from your goal, one thing you should abandon until after you reach your goal, was sex.
And this was Hill’s mistake.
At the time, most people thought sex was just for procreation or a frivolous waste of energy. There was no wide access to the secrets of Tantra and ancient Western forms of spiritualized sexuality.
The truth is that sex doesn’t have to be a drain of energy, In fact, it can increase your energy and help you focus that energy toward your goal. Here is an easy technique to accomplish this that you can use:
1. Make a drawing or use a photo of your desired goal. If possible, include an image of yourself in the picture.
2. Take it with you everywhere and look at it when you can. This includes when you have sex.
3. While you are having sex, remember to open your eyes and look at the image! This is especially true when you climax.
The result is that you will literally “program” and charge your unconscious mind to achieve your goal! The combination of the sex-charged and programmed unconscious mind combined with your goal-driven actions to manifest your desires will be unstoppable!
Donald Michael Kraig graduated from UCLA with a degree in philosophy, and has become a certified hypnotherapist and Master NLP practitioner. His book, Modern Magick, is the most popular step-by-step course in real magick ever published.
14 thoughts on “Sex and the Law of Attraction”
We know the three steps for the law of attraction: Ask, believe and Receive. I have learnt these steps in a different way to achieve our desires. You can check three steps of law of attraction here
I left my husband because he cheating on all the time. But Istill loved him but I didn’t love the cheating. This was 12 yrs ago. I dream that I am back with him every single night because I still love him. He is married now and he is not alowed to talk to me. Why can’t I forget him?
If finding sexual partners is a goal, then shouldn’t climaxing while watching dirty videos make that a reality? It doesn’t though.
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Great.The Law of attraction depends on one’s desire.I believe if one’s becomes energetic for what he desires,then the result becomes positive.
I have been studying the law of attraction for four years now. Napolian Hill is one of thousands of men and women that have written and spoken publicly about it. I must say that Mr. Hill did not make a mistake in saying that people could very well abstain from sex to create more quantum energy in order to get their desire to come to fluition as fast as possible. Many men do and have done just that. There is a problem in saying that you can use sex to your advantage, however. The Law of Attraction states that you can get what you want if you think about it enough and put enough energy into it. But there is also a law that goes hand in hand with the Law of Attraction. The law of the focus of certain feelings. Feelings are energy and the feelings you emit twords a certain goal or desire may be the key to your success or failure. Sex emits TONS of energy, yet the thoughts and feelings connected to your past and present sexual encounters may cause problems you never thought possible. Many people I know that I have been studying with heard of this particular theory when we first got into it. Within three weeks, we were focusing more on having sex with our counterparts then we were at attaining our goals. The sheer act of combining our thoughts of success with the feelings of sex made us horny when we tried to accomplish anything! It’s because of this “expiriment” that I urge anyone that is thinking about using or is already using the Law of Attraction to use it respectfully and with alot of imagination. . . and to leave sex to what it’s ment for. (If you are just starting and are seriously into finding out more about the Law of Attraction. I reccomend this movie: What The Bleep Do We Know?! – There are a few peaple from The Secret in this movie. They explain the scientific AND religious nature of the universe and how it works with us to create our own realities.)
The Law of Attraction, the “ask and you shall receive” principle, is without doubt real. However, it’s a spiritual process, a spiritual attitude.
I understand the need for a materialistic consciousness to have some material reminder, but in truth, it’s not necessary.
If a person needs to write down goals, put their picture on it, and look at it while climaxing, OK. But goals are set in the heart, written on the heart. The process of visualizing is a spiritual act.
Great. I’m about to climax, and I’m wondering where I put my image…. thought I had it right over there…. ‘scuse me honey for a moment……..
Well i belive that at some points in our life we do manifest things that we desire very deeply , without even realizing, knowing what we put out there. the outcome could be a positive or negative depending on what exacteley we desire. we don”t need to use our energy solely to one goal or desire, its enough to just wish it from every cell in your body, mind and soul at the same time. and i promise you it will happen and even in no time. i have done it many times, from getting a job, to money to even love. and i have done it mostly without even knowing it. it was just the depth of my desire. it was the intensity of my desire. it will happen to you too.
I guess I’m still immature at 53: What if my “goal” is to be with a particular man? I’m certainly not going to have sex with him this early in the relationship. Just kissing has formed a difficult bond as I’m meeting others, as well. And I’m not going to have sex with someone else to create the energy you’re speaking of. We’re still getting to know each other, yet a connection was formed the day we met, and the sexual energy between us is palpable! We have a lot in common, but cannot be together at this time. We want each other though we aren’t making promises we may not be able to keep.
I guess I’m still immature at 53: what if my “goal” is a particular man?
Thank you so much for this post! I talk to my clients about laws of attraction every day and insist that in fact they need to do MORE than they think is required to get the desired result…this puts excess energy out in the universe to speed it up! This is a wonderful reminder to us all that we are the creators of our reality and i love the focus on sexual energy…this should be required reading;)
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Morgana