Are They Soulmate Material?
Richard Bach once described a soulmate as “someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks.” He went on to talk about a love that demands you to be yourself, and within this honesty you would discover an inner peace that would bring you a paradise which protects you from life’s disappointments. While this is a very beautiful explanation, a more practical definition might describe a soulmate relationship as a connection that facilitates itself through a mixture of curiosity, destiny, love, fulfillment, enlightenment, effort, determination, faith and biology.
When you are looking for signs that tell you you’ve found your true soulmate, you need to consider that this isn’t anything like searching for buried treasure. Once you find it, you can’t just drag it aboard your ship and set sail for “happily ever after.” It is more like discovering an enchanted forest. It is beautiful and mysterious, yet very fragile, with many hidden perils that can be easily avoided as long as you know how. If you want to know the soulmate potential of a lover, you must first look at the signs that can be found within both of you.
Does the Relationship Have Potential?
Surveys state that nearly three-quarters of all couples believe it is their destiny to find that one special person to spend the rest of their life with. However, research also suggests that it is a mistake to believe that a soulmate will fit you perfectly and your relationship will require minimal work to maintain it, as these are the very relationships that rarely last. In fact, a true soulmate should arrive with plenty of potential, but will most certainly have their share of flaws.
Is Your Partner Imperfectly Perfect?
Falling in love with a soulmate who is perfect is practically impossible. Research shows that when we are so infatuated with a new love, we believe we’ve found the perfect match, but this only sets us up for disappointment. Even your soulmate will have things that don’t fit quite right. The important thing is that you see your partner for who they are, are willing to compromise and forgive their faults and love them as is. This is the kind of commitment to an imperfect relationship that is necessary to build a life-long soulmate relationship. So how do you know if your relationship has this kind of potential?
Learn to get past their imperfections with tips from Psychic Reed ext. 5105!
Is Your Partner Willing to Work and Grow With You?
Some people think that if their relationship is “meant to be,” it will just work. And if it takes any kind of work to be in a relationship, these same people are quick to call it quits and continue their search for the “perfect” mate. But in reality, it takes a lot of work for have a forever companion. A soulmate connection is a powerful connection and if you have one with someone, it means that you are both willing to do what it takes to work on your relationship to both maintain it and improve it.
Find out if it’s “meant to be” or just another notch on your dating belt. Psychic Bridget ext. 5249 has the answer!
People change over time and the only way they can continue to foster that initial chemical bond is to learn and grow together. They have to find new things to fall in love with. I can tell you from experience that I do not love the exact same things about my wife that I did when we first met. However, the new things are just as wonderful, and I can’t wait to see what she has in store for me in the future.
The trick to finding your soulmate is not where you look, but how you approach the search. Destiny is a powerful belief, but you must also believe that you have at least some control. When you contact a psychic for a reading, they can enlighten your path to happiness. However, it will be up to you to take the necessary steps to make sure you don’t veer too far off course and end up creating an alternate ending for yourself. This is why it is important to understand how to argue, listen to and forgive your soulmate. If finding them were that easy, you would never appreciate them as much as you should.
“You will find your soulmate if you live from the higher aspects of your personality.” – Psychic Fiona ext. 5178
36 thoughts on “Signs They are Your Soulmate”
Eric, what a wonderfully insightful, educational and, most importantly, real look at what makes a soul mate relationship, or any relationship, for that matter, truly work and last.
Your observations that, “Even your soulmate will have things that don’t fit quite right. The important thing is that you see your partner for who they are, are willing to compromise and forgive their faults and love them as is. This is the kind of commitment to an imperfect relationship that is necessary to build a life-long soulmate relationship,” is so dead-on: it is this objective awareness of who a partner truly is, acceptance of their little flaws and commitment to loving them any way that makes up the only firm foundation on which to build a long-term future.
The other side of that, though, is being honest enough with ourselves to admit when those little flaws are just too much for us to accept and moving on so we can find someone who really fits with us.
Brightest blessings,
Seren, Ext 5445
Well I really enjoyed this article” enjoyed” ? was that the right word? I still think about someone who I met and totally turned my life upside down, it lasted years, and I still think about them nearly everyday, I try and remind myself that the lessons are here to be learned as part of our spiritual development. As a human I wish for instant results! but that is not reality is it. However I experienced some wonderful highs and some hard lows. It is the wisdom of articles like this that remind me that I must continue in my life to live and learn despite my sorrows and pains. 🙂
i don’t know if this guy is my soulmate, i fell in love with him so quickly without thinking about the consequences. Every time i remember those beautiful moments we shared, tears which i couldn’t help it anymore even in my nightmare. And the worst part of it, he is a married guy what do i do?
if people would just let go of the notion that there are no soulmates,they will be much happier.
there are simply numerous people out there that need love and caring .and companionship.
i went through many bad eggs before i found a good one and have 3 kids and 3 grandkids.
relationships are hard work no matter how they appear to outsiders looking in.
all that matters is he or she treats you good and you can laugh together in the best and worst of times and of course never go to bed angry…i hope you all find a good person to love
TWICE I FELL IN LOVE WITH WHOM I WOULD SAY WERE MY SOUL MATES. I COULDN’T GET THEM OUT OF MY MIND AFTER I MET THEM, THEY BOTH PASSED AWAY. ONE WAS 25- THE OTHER 57. I MISS THEM BOTH !!
Pooja,
Who knows the future , why has love need to be conditional? if you love someone, irrespective of his status , you should not stop loving him. Who knows what is there in your future ? If some time you realized that you have done a mistake ? Will you show yourself self pity? If you love someone ..love unconditionally …LOVE someone like you love your own self.
The comments by William Bumpous are typical of what psychics, some supposed psychics, try to get people to do. This is all CRAP!!!!!!!! What she is telling you to do is ridiculous. It sounds to me like she is the DEVILs protege and practicing black magic. And yes, it DOES exist. I have personally seen people lose everything they had to deceitful psychics who use others to achieve wealth. This woman is BOGUS. DO NOT do what she is telling you to do, DO NOT give her $8000. DO NOT give her anything else. Tell her to screw off and leave you alone. She has no power to do good. She is evil personified.
thank you
I am soooo confused!
Hi there!! I can say that I love, love, love this article is absolutely true, yet realistic, we all want to have our soulmate but, we may not be willing to work, fight, to keep it!!! But it’s so true. Finding a soulmate doesn’t mean it is all done!! It’s just the beginning to make it work, to grow together!! Beautiful day!!!
Today is Sept 12- I met someone face to face today. However, been communicating with this person for quite some time..Felt that connection long time ago. When we met, the chemistry was enhanced. Was not looking for anyone to fill that void, at the time. Met a few in my life. Start out with all this adrenalin flowing and it subsides quickly. Wonder will this be the same. Your email came just in time. Spent the evening with this person, wake up and here is all this information to help me move along and have some understanding regarding how to help make it last long enough to give
What if after all your relationships you found someone you really feel is your soulmate but he can not be yours as he is already married with kids and a responsible person who can not leave his family just cause you love him. After all the efforts to divert yourself from him you can’t forget him for a moment. And you are not able to love any one else like the way you love him.
You had some great moments with him which you will cherish for life but at the end he can not be yours. What to do in such case!?
I need a soulmate
Me too Jenny Me too good luck for both of us…….
OMG! FINALLY A REALITY CHECK!!! THIS INFO IS SO TRUE. I HAVE FINALLY FOUND MY SOULMATE (IM 47) AND WHAT IT CAME DOWN TO IS THIS: LOVE, PATIENCE, UNDERSTANDING, PATIENCE, TOLERANCE, AND PATIENCE! MANY OF US ARE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING THAT IS RIGHT THERE IN FRONT OF US, BELIEVE THIS!!! THANK YOU! FOR PUTTING IT OUT THERE!!!!!!
I’m still searching who is my soul mate? In what way that i should know if he is my soul mate?
My soul mate came and stayed for seven years but it just veered. I thought I’d never find another soul mate. There can only be one. Then I met her and she said she had to chose another because we weren’t on the same stride spiritually. I don’t know believe that a real soul mate would say that. Soul mates cannot help but be drawn together an nothing would keep them apart except destiny I guess..
Met my husband when 19, in a love-at-first -sight moment. That was 41 years ago. Soulmates definitely exist. I consider my son an even closer type of soulmate, he is like my other half. I feel blessed to be with two souls who love me so much, and who I love so much. Love does indeed make the world go round.
Dear Carol,
I’ve died and crossed over twice, Edgar Cayce was right.
Great article..
I’m still looking with my soulmate.
Great article..
I’m still looking for my soulmate..:-(
IN REPLY TO THE COMMENT ABOUT “ANNALEISE” HIS FIRST LOVE.. I ALSO HAD A FIRST LOVE, AND WE DATED FOR TWO YEARS, 14 TIL 16 YR OLD. WE PARTED, AND WE NEVER FORGOT EACH OTHER. 52 YRS LATER, AFTER HIS WIFE DIED, AND I ALSO WAS WIDOWED, HE CONTACTED ME, WOW! IT WAS LIKE BEING 16 AGAIN, BOTH OF US RE-CONNECTED IN A BIG WAY. AND PLANNED ON GETTING MARRIED, WE HAD 18 MONTHS TOGETHER, AND DURING THOSE LAST 6 ONTHS, HE WAS DIAGNOSED WITH CANCER, AND NOW, THE LOVE OF MY LIFE IS GONE. BUT WE WERE SO VERY BLESSED TO HAVE THAT TIME TOGETHER. WE REALLY TOLD EACHOTHER EXACTLY HOW WE FELT, EVERYTHING WE HAD TO SAY TO AND HOW MUCH WE MEANT TO EACH OTHER WAS SAID, AND THATS HOW IT SHOULD BE, WHETHER A PERSON IS DYING OR NOT, WE SAID IT EVEN BEFORE WE KNEW HE WAS ILL. HE WAS TRULY THE LOVE OF MY LIFE, AND YOU DONT FIND THAT EVERY DAY. WE FOUND LOVE AND LAUGHTER N THOSE 18 MONTHS, THAT MOST PEOPLE DONT FIND IN A LIFETIME TOGETHER, WE WERE TRULY BLESSED.. WHAT WONDERFUL MEMORIES I HAVE. SANDRA
Hi I wanted to know if the person I talk to on the phone a lot by text messaging and only saw each other once but I wanted to know if we talk a lot on the phone and email but we haven’t seen each too much since the end of August well do you think that this a reatlionship that would go somewhere or nowhere and how do you know if you think that this is person you want to spend the rest of your life with as a soul mate, I am looking but it is very hard and times I just feel like I need to give up beacause maybe I am not meant to find a soulmate and I just want to find my true love and does it exist can you please help me psychic, and thanks sonia cavicchia, please can you email me a response psychic, please.
Doug your last sentence says it all. You understand already what so many others spend years looking for. Yes, relax, love yourself…and will all work out!
Our true soulmate is already on the Other Side. They are a complement of us. Very few actually incarnate with their own soulmate. When people down here on the earth plane talk about soulmates, they usually mean “person they were meant to be with to experience life together.” Because we have come to earth to experience emotion and learn and teach each other lessons, the people we have relationships with are those teachers. The ones closest to us usually teach us the biggest lessons and vice versa. Somehow the ones we experience romantic love with we tend to get confused and think that person is a “soulmate,” when actually they are the teacher or the student! Your Life Chart that you wrote before you came into life determines who you’ll be dealing with and what situations you’ll be experiencing.
Romantic love really does not last…sooner or later it either switches places with real love, or ends. The romance part of it is one of those things that were put in place eons ago to make sure the human race reproduces, that’s about it.
Reikigirl is not a man but I thought you’d like to hear my take on things. Thoughts are things and we make our own realities. Peace and light to you Doug!
Edgar Cayce said soul relationships vary from a day a month a year a lifetime! That our “soul mates” should be called “Soul Meets,” as we agreed before we arrived on the planet who we would meet, that each would have a specific purpose on earth towards our growth, and that when that purpose was accomplished the relationship could change–the person might leave our life or be a friend, or be “the one” until we pass over again. He said we travel in soul groups and that in a particular life the person who was our brother in a past life, for example, might be our husband in this one…and so forth.
William Bumpous. If you are going to get 10,000,000 dollars soon anyway just tell your psychic you will pay her twice the 8,000 after it comes. If she is truthful about this windfall, she will not mind waiting. Besides how do you reconcile a person supposedly blessed with this ability but not willing to provide for her fellow man without a HUGE monetary gain. I have no doubt in Karma and I can’t wait until it starts hitting on those who would defraud others in this way.
I would love to hear a mans point of view on soulmates. The reason I say this is because … What makes you think it has to be a lot of work? What makes any of us say that it may be worth all the struggles? We are indeed very good at deceiving ourselves, are we not? Given the law of attraction if you’re at peace within doesn’t it seem that you would draw the same? It’s not that I have all the answers but saying that, I’ve never heard someone that has found their soulmate say these things, and I do know you can’t teach what you don’t know and you can’t know what you don’t have! I have on the other hand met people men and women who have met someone and their life was beautiful as they had and were experiencing it in their lives. (it leads to other questions) Some interesting thoughts… hum??? Do you really have a soul mate or is everyone your soul mate in one form or another? Do you really make your own world and life or is it made for you? We are great dreamers good story tellers. Does all of it really matter if you are happy? Love yourself and let everything work itself out for you I believe it will!!!
To Martin Littlemore, Time ! Haven’t you ever heard of the old adage, time heals wounds ? Just give yourself some of it with a much needed dosage of patience and eventually maybe the fire will resolve itself. Truthfully… I’ve been there !
I really wish people would just STOP using those marketing Disney fantasy terms, “Soul Mate” and “Twin Flame.” They do NOT exist. Healthy, happy, strong partnerships do.
There are too many people who are unnecessarily lonely because while everyone’s waiting and searching for this impossible standard, they’re missing out on opportunities for real love.
Just wanted to comment about your article. As far as soulmates go, yes any relationship requires some amount of work from both sides. However, this is what I’ve found to be in my case. If you are with your soulmate, which I believe whole heartedly to be my situation, then the work it takes to make the relationship doesn’t seem like work at all. 🙂
I have been married now for 16 years my wife is a filippina and we have a beautiful teenage daughter, although our marriage is not perfect and I yearn for a soulmate someone who I could truly be in Love with. Now that I am nearing my mid fifties and very dis-enchanted with the whole Love Thing, I had it when I met my first Love at the age of around 18-20 but then after that, I found out That Love often likes to stray, boo hoo, I know I am only a male and we were both Sagittarians, years later I found out that she had even left her husband for a guy who 5 kids and then she died of chronic cancer of every major organ in her body. I did truly Love her but I dont think she realised it at the time, her ex husband tracked me down and rang me and told me of her death and told me that” he knew that I Loved Her’,I was 40 at that time she was 42. I broke down and wept my wife wanted to know what was happening and just laughed. I am 53 now and still think of her. Her name was Anneliese and my name is Terry. Regards James Terrence (Terry) Downing
Great article, Eric !!!!
The below copied paragraph from your article is very important, in that souls come together on this, the earthly plane , as a catalyst FOR growth, for learning, to evolve Karmically.
Your Partner Willing to Work and Grow With You?
Some people think that if their relationship is “meant to be,” it will just work. And if it takes any kind of work to be in a relationship, these same people are quick to call it quits and continue their search for the “perfect” mate. But in reality, it takes a lot of work for have a forever companion. A soulmate connection is a powerful connection and if you have one with someone, it means that you are both willing to do what it takes to work on your relationship to both maintain it and improve it.
ALL relationships require work, kind of like a garden, relationships need to be tended to and nourished to blossom and grow.
Blessed Be )O(
Gina Rose ext.9500
I am to summit to finish the work of the spirit tthrough Mary my psychic but not sure she is of the good occult or not? Please give this message to GOLDEN GIRL or who has be predicting my future at beginning of this year.THIS IS CRUCIAL.I am to take with me one shoe and a shirt in brown paper bag.A rose from me and my 3 children with names and birthdates. I am to go to Montana but have to do this to release me from the dark clouds of a curse 6 generations back for sin.I am tired of here and need to leave.This is only option.She wants an offering of 8,000.00 for this and said 10 million is coming soon if i do this.I need GOLDEN GIRL or someones advice soon in 24 hours please.I will pay for such.*,000.00 is high in hard times and if my wife finds out i am good as divorced.Help GOLDEN GIRL and here my CRY OUTfor guidance.I have no phone and at my end of rope.You wrote this.MY intuition says to go for this but do not want to be scammed.She says she can remove the curse that holds me from going.I saw myself and my sister in Montana that waits for my coming.
Great article
can you have a bond with an ex partner, feel their pain and know when things are wrong in their life, my ear and side of face burn most of the time and at times my throat is on fire with anger ,no one seems to tell me any answers can you please …. thank you
Great article, Eric! I especially agree with the last paragraph. I often tell my callers that our relationship with the Universe is 50/50. The Universe brings us our “soul mate” but it is up to both parties to exercise their free will to work on the relationship, and themselves, for them to also end up being our life mate. Thanks for this article!