8 Tips on How to Get Closer to Your Guy

8 Tips to Get Even Closer to Him

According to Cosmo, getting closer to your guy or putting the moves on him (guy romance) can be as easy as licking froth off an espresso, or sucking on your fingertips as if they were strips of bacon. However, if you prefer to be seen as more than just two legs with a target plastered at their connection point, I highly recommend trying a couple of these moves instead.

“Scarf Some Grimace Proportions”

This is one of my favorite quotes from the film, European Vacation, and I think it is appropriate here, because every guy will love a girl who knows how to eat. It is great to be healthy. However, every now and then a guy wants a girl to let loose on her fork like a shark at a pool party. Guys imagine that a woman who is open to all life’s pleasures will extend those tendencies while in the bedroom. I’ll leave it at that, as we are now heading back into Cosmo territory.

Whisper a Secret in His Ear

Whispering in a guy’s ear is an aphrodisiac in two ways. One, the warm, tingling sensation of a woman’s breath is like sneezing without all the mess. Two, anytime that you have the chance to share something fun, yet private, it gives guys a stake in the relationship. Secrets help couples bond by creating a sense of trust and intimacy. If you can get him to tell you a couple of secrets in return, you’ll increase his stake even more.

Challenge Him

Guys are naturally competitive creatures. While watching a football game in his underwear will decrease his available testosterone, getting him in front of a pool table or dart board will actually increase it. As you know, testosterone equals sexual interest, which means that you will get the same positive reaction as licking froth off your nose, while perched on a kitchen tabletop, holding a copy of the Kama Sutra, although much more subtle.

Unleash Dirty Talk While He’s on the Phone

I’m not talking about being annoying while he is talking to his mom or boss, but rather giving him a quick goose that will put a smile on his face, and then just walk away. Studies show that men are turned on by the idea of exhibitionism or public sex, and this pleasure can be mimicked by offering a little dirty talk when his mind is supposed to be on other things.

Lower His Expectations, So That You Can Exceed Them!

Guys are notorious for getting their expectations knocked down after being built up to impossible levels. Girls drive men crazy when they tease about having a really big surprise for him. The truth is, the best surprise comes when he thinks that he is going to drive his mother-in-law to get a colonoscopy and you end up taking him to an afternoon Lakers game. This is what I like to call the “old one-two.” You start by lowering his expectations with a dreary outlook, and then surprising him with a date that will feel like a party at Hugh Heffner’s Playboy mansion.

Give Him a Guy’s Night Out

Normally, a guy has to jump through hoops to earn himself a legitimate guy’s night out. In addition to this, most guys get a little lazy when it comes to making plans with friends. This adds up to those guy’s nights becoming a little scarce over time. To get on his good side, all you need to do is buy him tickets to a game, and give him your blessing to take a couple of his friends out as a stress reliever. This kind of move shows a guy that you’re paying attention to what makes him happy.

“Keep your partner happy by being happy yourself.” – Psychic Blythe ext. 5339

Support His Hobbies (Even if They’re Weird or Annoying)

Men are used to women complaining about their Star Trek/Star Wars fetish or muscle car hobbies. This makes it all the more pleasant when a girl takes an interest in these hobbies and actually helps him to excel in them. This releases any of his worries that she won’t try to change him, which is something that a lot of women do to these guys.

“Each person within a partnership should be recognized and appreciated for the strengths he or she brings, as well as respected for weaknesses that cannot be changed.” – Psychic Giovanna ext. 5214 

Flirt Multiplication

Monica Moore, PhD, the coauthor behind the study, Predictive Aspects of Nonverbal Courtship Behavior in Women, reminds us that while any one of these moves may work great, it is their combination that will create the most dramatic effect.

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