The Hottest Words to Say to a Man On Your First Date

A man wants three things from a woman on a first date: playfulness, teasing and sexual confidence,” says Matthew Hussey of Get the Guy. It’s your lucky day. I’ve got a free gift for you that you’re going to love. It’ll show you how to read men like a book and reveal their dirty little secret that no one else ever talks about. It’s only available for a limited time and you’ll need to act today to get it.

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And all you have to do is say the right words. Let me explain…

There are three qualities that every man secretly wants to detect in every woman on a first date.

1. Playfulness

2. Teasing

3. Sexual confidence

If you can convey a combination of these three on a first date, you will never fail to stimulate a guy in all the right ways.

And fortunately enough, I’ve put together a list of my favourite phrases on a first date. Some of these have to be delivered quite tongue-in-cheek, or with a playful attitude, but that’s exactly the state men want in a first date. They want a woman who doesn’t take herself seriously, who can be in control of the situation, and most of all a woman who will take the initiative in driving him so crazy that he can’t wait to pick up the phone and arrange the next date.

So let’s look at some phrases that will arouse his curiosity:

1. “You’re in my bad books now…”

Guys can never resist a girl who gives back as good as she gets. So if a guy comes at you on a date with lots of teasing and tries to make jokes, it’s always sexy if a woman comes back and shows that she won’t put up with it.

This doesn’t need to be said seriously, you can mock tease him by saying “You’re in my bad books now, I’m not sure I can forgive you…” or “you’re going to have to win me back now.”

Even though he knows you’re joking, he’ll want to fight to get back in your good books! These kind of roleplays always allow you to set a tone for your relationship, and you can always turn up the heat by making it sexual later e.g. “There are ways you can get back in my good books…”

2. “I bet you’d be good at X”

Saying you think a guy will be good at something does a few things. First of all, it plays to his male ego, and no matter what it is he’ll want to prove to you that he’s good at it. Second of all, it’s a personal observation, and a guy will find it sexy that you’ve thought about something specific to him.
So for example, you could say “I bet you’d be great magician.” Then when he’s intrigued and wants to know why, you respond with “Because you’d look great with a top hat on” or “Because you’ve got those shifty eyes”.

3. “Maybe, if you’re good…”

Telling a guy he has to behave is always a sure way to turn him on. It tells him that (a) you are selective and (b) he’s not going to get what he wants unless he earns it first. This is always very sexual territory for guys, because it shows your sexual confidence.

4. “I’m impressed.”

Men are still children at heart. They never grow up from wanting to impress the girl they like. You can show this to him in either a silly or a serious way. For example, if he talks about something he’s passionate about you can be genuine and tell him it’s impressive to find someone dedicated to what they love. Or if he tries to be chivalrous and holds a door open, or carries something for you, you can say “Wow, I’m always impressed with a man who can take initiative.”

Rest assured, whatever impresses you is sexy to a man.

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